I’m a 47 y/o, 5’10 195lbs, Single muscular light skin straight black male with soft deep set brown eyes, Salt and pepper hair and mustache and a keen mind for conversation and humor. I’m not fat or skinny I think I have what is called a football players built stocky. I have the emotions that mostly express kindness, and sincerity of the heart. I’m Intelligent, articulate, trustworthy, friendly, open minded, non-drama and down to earth in my personality, I’m HIV negative, STD free, and Vasectomy friendly. And of course with proof, I’m also free spirited, and extremely laid back, in my personality, a pleaser by nature to the whims of the right woman, that is seeking a warm earthy good hearted friend for a exclusive only one or one only long-term friendship based relationship. I live and work in the east San Francisco East Bay area, and Available to meet perhaps for Lunch, or coffee in the hopes of building a trustworthy based friendship that could lead to something more long standing for us both. I’m in no hurry and feel that any sexual based relationship must be ingrained in trust first and foremost. Once the comfort barrier has been establish the openness and the truth of one another’s passions will come to the surface. And the possibilities at that point sexually will be boundless. I do drink socially, I don’t smoke but don’t mind if you do long as I’m not in the direct location where the smoking is being done. As to music I’m a little old fashion and I’m mostly into my generations music, some light rock, R&B, Jazz, so on. I enjoy going to the movies, and conversations over coffee talking about where every you would like. I a chameleon of assorts when it comes to sex, as pleaser by nature although most really wouldn’t understand the two terms together in a sentence, lets say I read into her emotions based on my actions. I’m extremely oral to a science I just love the taste of a woman especially if she athletic it does make a difference as to her taste. I’m also not into BDS&M or anything that has to do with giving or receiving pain. My schedule is pretty flexible, and I can with a litle prior notice match your's if you would like, if by chance you would like to set up a meeting of your choice I'm hoping intitially we could meet somewhere for lunch, sometimes great conversations flow when food is around. You think on it and let me know either way what you choose, if I'm not your type thank you for reading my message, and I hope you find the one special person you seek. until then have a nice day and or evening. Coming to Fort Walton Beach..this week Sincerely Darnell Hughes

My Ideal Person Someone that has a full life, and would like to have a little fun from time to time, a different prespective in relation to her present situation, change for a short time is always nice, it allows us to recharge before we have to go back and face the world again.

A lady that is a woman, not a child trying to learn who she is, but knows exactly who she is, and that means sexually as well. If you want sex, you know just with who, and how you want it. you take your sex serious just like you take your life.

You like to enjoy the simply things in life, going to a movie, playing pool, having a drink after work, sipping a coffee at Star Bucks over conversation.

You must also either be in a relationship, or married, not looking to change your situation but add sometime to it, and little spice to your life, or work family and kids, a moment with your special male friend just for you, lunch, a movie, or an afternoon of hot passionate sex, just for a brief moment to catch your emotional breath. to recharge and face your world until our next meeting.

You should be HIV negitive, STD free, emotionally stable, ready for someone new in your life, for a longterm friendship based relationship.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Paul Hardcastle - Jazz

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Since I travel to the Atlanta, Georgia region a lot, I guess
meeting a female friend, and or couple that I have not seen
for some time since our last hot encounter, and before we
can make it back to my hotel, her or their place we are going
at it right there in the car as we are screaming down the highway.
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I've only been going to the Atlanta area now for about
a year, and have not really had the chance to meet anyone
really, but I do go there at least every other month, So I
guess I'm still at the wait and see stage.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Lots of Oral sex on her

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Most of the everyday people I see in my life look better then
the Hollywood types.
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So why would I want to.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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