I enjoying topping with a real focus on rough body manhandling. I love using my hands and tend to want connect throughout play. I don't feel like I need to identify as a super domly dom. I do the things I enjoy and have no problem being the one in control when I want to, I just don't need to project that out as my one defining feature. I certainly can have a sadistic streak, but its tempered by who I play with and what they are hoping to get out of the experience. Although not super essential I tend to enjoy playing with a more masochistic partner that enjoys some choking, heavier impact, punching, wrestling, otk spankings and things along those lines. In general though, I'm open to playing with most people and looking for a connection through play. I have multiple partners and want to be able to talk honestly and openly about them with anyone I have a more serious ongoing play relationship with. Open to new play partners and experiences. Feel free to message me if you want to talk.