I am a 46-year old SWM professional, intelligent, well-educated, creative, artistic, stable, confident, self-assured and self-reliant, healthy, quick-witted and financially secure. I don't know how to be anything other than completely honest. Open communication is paramount. I am very masculine, self-aware, respect myself, possess a strong perality, and am very assertive in my vanilla life. However, I have always been drawn to women who were aware of their sexual power over men and enjoyed using that power for their own pleasure. I take pride in my submission, know its value and, therefore, do not give it to just any woman who says that she is a Domme. I also do not leave my dignity and self-respect "at the door" when I am with her (and know that she would not want me to do so). However, while I readily accept the fact that she may have me do or say things for her pleasure that may not appear to the outside world as "dignified," such acts or words. in her presence, are honorable sacrifices or services she deserves. I give up control for our mutual pleasure, not because I cannot exercise control. I do not forget who I am, even while on my knees. I do not grovel for any woman. Yet when the right woman claims me, I will kneel before her with devotion. While I do not necessarily subscribe to a belief in female superiority, I will know - when I find her - the right one to place above and before myself. I am neither needy nor mindlessly obedient; but I take pride in obedience to the right woman. While I do not need a dominant, I want, crave and desire one. I would find great fulfillment in worshiping her. I am 6'/185 (athletic), in good shape (work out regularly at the gym) and live a healthy lifestyle. Those who know me have also described me as reflective, non-judgmental, a good communicator, at times silly and very creative. I'd add that I have a very active imagination. I also more often act on my instincts, in which I have real confidence. I'm very sensual, tactile and affectionate (and have no problems with showing that in public). If I have a fetish, it is legs. I have always been drawn to a beautiful pair of legs more than any other part of a woman's anatomy (although having beautiful legs and feet are not essential if we match well in other areas). I also have a bit of a foot fetish, and am turned on by a woman who understands such things, has a particularly shapely pair of feet and keeps them well-pedicured. Extended foreplay, for hours if possible, is something that I love! I'm also very turned-on by long gentle kissing, with lips just touching each other, that generates electricity between our bodies. I live a very active and interesting life, and a have a diverse range of interests and passions - including photography; s; cars; travel off the beaten path; blues, rock and classical music; and modern art. I have traveled to much of Western & Eastern Europe, parts of the Far East, Middle East, Australia, New Zealand, Egypt, Africa and parts of the Caribbean. I would like to find that special woman with whom I can share all of those things.

My Ideal Person I have long been seeking that elusive woman, whether single or in a relationship, who is intelligent, educated, cultured, honest, very attractive, interesting and has at least a dominant streak to her personality, primarily in the bedroom. The woman I seek is refined and knows that she does not have to shout or use obscenities to get and keep my full attention. She respects me as a man and knows the value of my submission. She can be just as commanding and teasing wearing jeans, business suit or evening dress. She loves using and controlling me and my over-sized cock for her pleasure, is polyamorous and loves the idea of cuckolding her partner and directing him to pleasure others.

Primarily, she seeks an intelligent, strong, assertive, attractive, interesting, funny and energetic male partner(s) and lover(s) who will submit to her whenever she wants and needs him or them to do so - in private (and in public if done very discreetly to avoid a scene or be noticed).

I would be willing to travel to meet and develop a relationship with her or them.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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