[I]I was in a poly relationship... hence the handle. Unfortunately, that relationship went South. We are not bitter, and remain friends. Enough said.[/I] [SIZE 2][B][U]UPDATE:[/U][/B][/SIZE] [SIZE 2][B]ARN'T THERE ANY REAL WOMEN ON THIS SITE?!?!?!?!?!?![/B][/SIZE] [B]I'm sooooo sick of bots, spammers, and fakes contacting me. I am letting my gold account expire. This site is not worth the hassle! If you are REAL... contact me.[/B] I am an experienced dominate male. With 12 years in the D/s lifestyle (took a break for the last 3-4 years). Though dominate in the bedroom, I respect my partner and treat her as an equal. Most would consider me as a "soft Dom". Meaning that I am more caring and loving then some. An example, I prefer an elk skin flogger then say a rubber or patent leather one. All can sting and be very pleasurable, but unlike the rubber or hard leather, the suede elk is very nice to the touch and can give more subtle pleasures as well as intense ones. I am honest, smart, down to earth, and can be creative when the mood strikes and my muse is roused. I enjoy various "hobbies" and activities, including music (I'm a musician), amateur physics, computers, movies, games, and cooking... to name just a few. I am a CNC Machinist. I work full time and enjoy what I do.

My Ideal Person A woman who is curvy and sexy, who knows how to serve a Dominant male but also knows what she wants and how to get what she wants. I'm NOT looking for a slave. I am looking for someone that will push the limits both in the bedroom as well as in life.

I'm looking for a life partner, not a one night stand, though they can be nice once in a while. Serious friends with benefits are always a nice thing to have as well, but not my long term goal. I'm also not looking for a wife at the present time. If the right woman entered my life, all things may change.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
WAY too many to list even a short list here. Sorry.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Too many to mention. I generally like a celeb for very specific
reasons. I'm not into the whole "babe"
thing. Certain celebs have VERY sexy eyes or cute faces
for example. Most celebs are not my type though. Typically,
I'll REALLY be attracted to someone in a particular
movie. But, then in anything else, I'm not that interested.
It's really the persona that's involved more
so then the person acting the part. <br><br>
Female musicians however, make me feel like a school boy
lusting over his teacher! ;)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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