Ok ..this is the female part of this couple (he'll update his part later)...Yea..this is LONG..however, if u're not gonna bother to read it all..then don't bother to contact me... This states what i am and am NOT looking for..I've put alot of time and effort into it :) DISRESPECT (ie: rude comments) will get u immediately blocked...without warning. Also, while i understand there DOES have to be physical attraction..if my pic is your FIRST concern...move on..i consider that incredibly shallow (and a turn-off). I can GUARANTEE u will NOT be privvy to naughty pics until I determine when so dont bother asking. Harsh? suck it up buttercup. One of my strong traits is brutal honesty [B]I DO NOT fuck or meet random strangers for coffee so don't bother asking[/B] If ure not willing to give me a bit of your time online to get to know u then I'm not willing to give u any of mine. Ok...I'm happily married (25 yrs now) My marriage has been an OPEN one for about the past 18 yrs..off and on. I play alone with other singles..and my husband and i play together with other couples. Hey, dont judge me..it may not work for u..but it's working for us. Besides..i'm not here to impress anybody. All I'm lookin for is some fun. I'm not looking to *fall in love*..i already have that. Just a bit of *playtime* on the side sort of thing. It's my escape ;) What i'm looking for: HUMOUR is the most important. I love to laugh...love to keep things fun and light. U gotta have a great sense of humour. I can't stand dry, tight-asses lol I'm a at heart :) I like to stomp in rain puddles, dance in the rain, throw snowballs...etc lol it's great to feel carefree..even if only for a mere moment and it's what keeps me feeling young :) Maturity..it's one thing to be a little goofy (i'm VERY guilty of it too lol)..it's another to act 15 when u're 35 (which is why i set my age range where i did) Intelligence..if u cant stimulate me mentally u sure as hell wont be able to physically. I cant fuk STUPID lol I have ren..my ren and my husband r my priority..i play when i get free time..sometimes it's often..other times it's not so often. What i'm NOT looking for: i CAN'T stress this enough that i will NOT play with married/attached men who r cheating on their wives/girlfriends. For those self-righteous ***holes out there..read above that my marriage is OPEN this means that my husband IS aware of and ok with this..i'm NOT a hypocrit. Seriously..i do not need some crazed psycho wife beating down my front door. I've got too much to lose. I dont need/want the drama. If u're married and cheating..move on... Updated to add that this wasn't meant to be a *sanctimonious speech* I dont pass judgement on why u do what u do. There's many reas for it..and in some cases I can, to a point, even agree with them...but that being said. I just dont need the drama of getting caught up in that. Life is too short..i'm here for fun..not more stress (get enough of that in my daily life lol) What i'm attracted to: smiling eyes..i love a nice warm smile. And as i said above..a great sense of humour. I'm very non-judgemental and incredibly open-minded. Physically there DOES have to be somewhat of an attraction..but i'm far from superficial and would expect the same from u ;) On that note..i, myself, have tattoos and piercings..so if that turns u off..keep movin :) People say I'm a cute yet rough n tough kinda gal outside of the bedroom (gimme ringside seats to a Boxing or UFC match over a trip to the mall ANY day! lol)..but alllll woman in the bedroom *smile* Oh...safe sex is an absolute MUST. As they say...no glove..no love baby ;) Sheesh..the updates just never stop...lol....Also wanted to add...do not expect to chat me up for 5 mins then want me to hop in the sack with u..that's NOT gonna happen. I'm horny but NOT easy lol I'm more of a *friends with benefits* kinda gal. I like to get to know someone first before taking it to the sexual level. So..if u're looking for just a *booty call*..u won't find it with me. That's just not my style. U must be willing to develop somewhat of a friendship first..when the time is right..it'll happen. WOW...well it's been a few yrs since I opened this profile and i gotta say that i've met COUNTLESS ppl from this site (read MET..doesn't mean i've played with em all...farrrr from that actually) I've formed some VERY cherished friendships along the way....(u all know who u r) All that being said..i've grown ALOT in the past few yrs...just thought I'd just add a few things. I absolutely adore big men (get yer minds outta the gutter..i'm talkin about stature NOT endowment..i'll enhance on that part later lol) This does NOT mean im looking for only big men (not sure how that got misinterpreted by many but apparently it has) However, there IS a difference with being big and FIT/big and UNFIT. I do not enjoy being with a guy who can only go 5 strokes before having to stop to catch his breath or wipe the torrential downpour of sweat from himself. That's NOT attractive. I need a *long distance runner*...not a *sprinter*..he's GOTTA be able to go the distance with me. I'm not into 30 sec fuks..no woman is. And any woman who claims to be able to get off with that, sh*t i wanna meet her..maybe she can teach me a few things lol I enjoy LONNNNG play sessions. And please dont say "i make up for it in other ways" ...yes, I DO very much enjoy receiving oral ..but not ALLLL night long. A FIT guy (regardless of his size) is what turns me on..someone who has STAMINA. The only rea I mention this is because I've met many big guys who felt they were *outta my league* because of their size so never bothered to contact me for fear of rejection. Like i said above the physical atributes of a per is at the bottom of my *appeals* list. I love men of ALL sizes *smile* This is all about attitude and perality. CONFIDENCE is hugely at the top of my list (do NOT confuse that with ARROGANCE!) Now, re: the endowment issue. Sorry guys if this is a sensitive topic for u (and in reality if it is then perhaps this isn't the lifestyle for u) but I'll say what all women r thinkin (but most wont admit)..size DOES matter. U must be at least 5" to ride this ride lol Nuff said! I very much do enjoy *take charge* kinda men...NOT pushy/forward ones..that'll just get ya a black eye...and believe me i CAN hold my own quite well lol. Shyness, while cute, will only get u so far. I'm not into submissive men..i prefer a somewhat dominant man altho he MUST be willing to hand over the reigns, for a little while, every once in a while. I am all about giving and taking *grin*

My Ideal Person Confident, witty, kind, sexy, playful..someone who's able to relax and just savour and enjoy the moment for what it is...