Newly divorced. Not a player - would rather have an ongoing companion. Wanting a social and physical companionship. Not searching for quantity. Wanting quality and prefer establishing a longer term arrangement. I have been told by a few of the ladies met here that I am not the typical responder they are used to on AFF. Don’t know what your in box looks like or encounters you have had - I only know that I am true to myself, honest, charismatic and real. I take the time to get to know, understand and care for a lady so that trust can be established. I am articulate, know how to talk to a woman - undress her with words. Who Am I? I am an active man. I maintain fitness by being on the go - living an avid life. I cycle, hike, snowboard, canoe, kayak, hunt, do hot yoga, etc – a man of adventure and movement. I own my own business. I have a beautiful home located in the country with a hot tub, wood stove and massage table! I am healthy and have been eating and cooking organic, local fresh foods for over 30 years – living a holistic lifestyle. I am a master of the garden and a chef in the kitchen – let me cook for you. I am an intellect with keen wit and articulate verbiage. I like to get into the mind and engage the sexual senses before the clothes ever come off. I have done my therapy, slayed my dragons and bring very little baggage along with me. My commitment is to honesty, integrity and not mis-leading anyone in this game of affairs and Ashley Madi. A woman can count on me to tell it how it is, what works, what doesn’t work. When I commit to being with a woman she gets all of me for the time spent together. I would prefer a long term play commitment. I am not here to notch bed posts. I have recently discovered my natural tendency for being in charge, a gentleman/chivalrous dominant if you will. I adore, cherish, pleasure and am attentive to a woman’s communications and her needs. I love to be affectionate and allow my strong arms to be a safe place. I love exploring a woman’s body. I can provide oral pleasure indefinitely. But I am firm and can take charge and have experience as a dominant if that is what you seek. I like fine things in life and to that end have a taste for quality sex toys and the tools of play. Ultimately I am looking for a sex positive, self identified "slut" for my girlfriend.

My Ideal Person Women that are unabashed in claiming and expressing their sexuality. Attitude with an ease of receiving pleasure and being orgasmic is more important than physical appearances per se (sex with a gorgeous yet non-responsive woman - well.....). That said the cliche "HWP" is important. I am not hard up nor looking for numbers - so will therefore be selective and look towards quality matches and hopefully repeat playmates.

Quite obviously I am open to one of the highly sought after Sex Friends Finder.net SF's that wants a male FWB, a simple booty call, a companion out side of the bedroom for events, a regular that can be texted for those "need it now" moments, etc.

Ultimately, I would like to find a woman seeking a boyfriend who supports her desire to explore sexually - embraces that she is on a site such as Sex Friends Finder.net.

I am open to meeting a happily married woman wanting to play; at a party, as part of a straight MFM or better yet a "shared/hotwife" scenario whereby she plays alone while the supportive husband waits it out at home with all of its anticipatory excitement. I know this fetish well and can help support your marriage.

While I get this is not a dating site per se - nor am i looking for a life partner given my recent divorce - I am open to finding a woman that wants a more ongoing connection to explore together in its many facets.

I will answer any other earnest inquiries.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, GF sharing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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