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rm_shemaleVIDA 60 F
14  Articles
How to Approach the Millennium Woman   6/12/2021

How to Approach the Millennium Woman A Compendium of Surefire Tips for Nerds, Adonises & Regular Joes <br> <br> My guy friends tell me that women are a mystery, that it’s hard to know what to say to us. Women play games and don’t tell you the rules. Or else we change the rules midgame. We want to be goddesses and expect you to worship us. But when you ...


11 Comments, 505 Views, 102 Votes ,7.29 Score
HunkInHeat2005 60 M
20  Articles
Married Folks: Should I Stay or Should I Go   6/25/2021

I need the advice of married folks who have made the decision to have affairs, and are "living the life." Without going into the background of my particular situation (Which you can read about in my article titled "Married Women, How Can I Capture Your Attention"), as I see it the bottom line question, for someone considering leaving their mate, comes down to this: Is it more important to ...


5 Comments, 403 Views, 18 Votes ,5.85 Score
Steelergirl84 48 F
0  Articles
What does it take?   6/25/2021

So I have been on here off/on for a few years. As much as I am addicting to sex, I am more about building a foundation to that hot steamy part. All men have that magic wand but I am not looking for any man. I am very honest and open about the type of guy I want. Why is it so hard to find an honest guy who isn't married? Who isn't into games? What I seek is a LTFWB relationship, someone to have ...


4 Comments, 65 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
rm_slowcurious 45 C
9  Articles
Dating   6/22/2021

When you meet couple this site do you try to build an actually relationship with them?


5 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
snowonroof2006 82 M
0  Articles
First date sex?   6/16/2021

From reading other articles I get the impression that a growing number of people (mainly men) are saying in their profile or email/other communications, depending on site policy, that they expect sex by ___ meeting/date. This article expresses my views on the subject. <br> Sex on the first date? <br> If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking for a ...


4 Comments, 165 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Find Someone Who Loves Your “Imperfections”   1/24/2022

The excitement of dating, in its early stages, often casts a kind of glamour over the other person. Although it mostly exists in your mind, this "glow" will smooth over all of the quirks that your love interest may possess, highlighting his or her strong and beautiful qualities. This trick of projection is a major reason why many people "fall in love" too fast and why they ...


2 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_vixensf 46 F
1  Article
It has never been me.   6/24/2021

I was once young and naive enough to believe that when I met somebody and fell head over heels in love with them that then would be my chance to show that person just how far to the ends of the earth I was willing to go and all the things and friends that I was willing to sacrifice to make that person my number 1! Well I did meet somebody in fact I met 3, not at the same time but 1 ...


15 Comments, 4579 Views, 164 Votes ,4.84 Score
LetmeridethatBBC 48 F
1  Article
Act like a goddess..get treated like one!   6/25/2021

I submit that a man’s “true colors” don’t manifest themselves over night. They are there, hiding, all along. However, your power of discernment becomes clouded by a noxious layer of lust/love/infatuation. Admittedly, there are some issues that, even after decades of marriage, Superwoman would not be able to detect, but in most women’s cases there are multiple red ...


6 Comments, 119 Views, 22 Votes ,4.57 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
Have you ever been "Just Fishing?"   6/18/2021

As I begin this trip down memory lane, let me advise you that I will be quoting two individuals.

When I was a I had an evil step-mother. From the age of 7 I began to learn the responsibilities of a mother. I learned to cook, clean, do the laundry, mending, ironing, as well as caring for her & eventually the that she took in for extra money. And you know she didn't give me any of the ...


4 Comments, 127 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_Rainstick44 54 C
0  Articles
Am I being selfish   6/24/2021

When you sacrifice something you've always wanted because it’s not what your husband wants. Being totally selfless for your marriage’s sake is a sure path to resentment. You’ve watched opportunities come and go, sometimes without considering your dreams. Right? You don’t convince yourself you don’t need certain things, be they , even if the husband said he doesn’t want any, or seeing ...


5 Comments, 85 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
margrob1967 56 M
1  Article
Sex as age   10/24/2021

Sex can be a powerful emotional experience and a great tool for protecting or improving health, and it’s certainly not only for the young. The need for intimacy is ageless. And studies now confirm that no matter what your gender, you can enjoy sex for as long as you wish. Naturally, sex at 70 or 80 may not be like it is at 20 or 30—but in some ways it can be better. <br><br> As an ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_HoRnDoG19862 37 M
2  Articles
How can you say age dosent matter, and it mean something?   6/19/2021

Ok this is more or less a question for the more settled down couples please help me out because I realy need some feed back here!!! I am a 19 year old male I just got out of c. p. s. ( protective services at age 18. I know what people might say when I say this but I find myself stangly drawn to may lover who is 35. Not in any weired way more or less like when you say "there the reason I get ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
HunkInHeat2005 60 M
20  Articles
Married ladies: How can a fellow married man capture your attention.   6/19/2021

If you are a married woman, and your reading this, chances are your in a similar boat. I would be indebted to any woman who would help me with this issue, and I want to thank you, in advance, for any advice you can offer. It seems to me that married men appear to be the scum of the earth in the eyes of most of the people utlilizing these sites. How can I convey that I'm actually a very ...


3 Comments, 308 Views, 18 Votes ,3.40 Score
liveandenjoylife 51 M
0  Articles
Need Help and Advice   6/29/2021

I and my wife both are 38 We have 2 - 8 and 2 yr old.

She is a homemaker

Well, problem is lack of love and intimacy. More importantly, love - as without it I cannot enjoy the day-to-day life - Im not looking at the love before marriage but there needs to be some love/warmth - automatically everything else would fall in place.

We have a 2br rented apt - she sleeps in 1 ...


12 Comments, 112 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
lost & confused...   6/19/2021

hello everyone... sorry for this long article in advance...i have been w/my bf for about 6 years and we have the upmost respect and love for each other. however, last week i got some shocking news and don't know what to do...my bf is in the navy and hes in iraq. a big salute to all miltary personnel. anyways, he called me last week saying he and some friends went out for drinking and a nite of ...


4 Comments, 183 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
saximimi 34 F
0  Articles
not easy to meet a soul mate on Sex Friends Finder.net   6/26/2021

Have been on this site for quite sometime and was looking for love. I got in touch with an older man with similar intersts we talked a lot and agreed to meet see if things worked. As usual we had much in common everyone was a saint and sexy and wow we guessed we were made for each other. He is a doctor and am an accountant. He was separated with wife and has 3 adapted from her and am a ...


13 Comments, 314 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_thom5932 65 M
1  Article
Trust and honesty in an open marriage is a must.   6/22/2021

My wife came home really late last night and I was layin' in our bed half awake when she slipped between the sheets and asked me whether I was awake. I could tell she had just been fucked by the smell of sex that was all over her sexy body. I told her, "Yes I'm awake, I've been worried about you for hours now because I hadn't heard from you." "Oh darling, my cell phone went dead ...


14 Comments, 34902 Views, 940 Votes ,2.75 Score
rm_muyiwa 49 M
2  Articles
Why older women are attractive..   6/25/2021

Most of my life I dated older women. I think I did so because I was around so many older women as a . I shaped my ideas of attraction and beauty around the women who I saw the most; I saw pretty women in the media and in person. In person, the limits of age continued to be pushed as I aged. Through my thirties and my early forties I found older women, with a lesser margin of age, to still be ...


6 Comments, 157 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
gashapon2 55 M
38  Articles
White Reactions to Interracial Unions Between People of Color   6/24/2021

I did not write this article. I found it on ColorQworld and it echos my observation, in life and in this website. It reflects my bitterness in a lot of ways. That is why I want to share it and hope the writer is okay with it.

Many people react negatively to seeing a member of their ethnic group with a member of another ethnic group. To play devil's advocate, let's claim the "what is ...


2 Comments, 174 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
onestickatatime 62 M
1  Article
Mr.Mom   6/22/2021

I wonder if a guy with 2 has a chance at meeting someone on here that would like to share there life, body and soul? Any thoughts, suggestions would be helpful. Have a great day! Keith


1 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_angle4all 48 F
13  Articles
How to get more out of what I have   6/11/2021

I really want more out of the relationship I have. I'm asked Daily for my hand in Marriage, but it is so hard for me to say let's do it. If things were like they were before we added to the picture, and how different we think on how to raise them. I would have said I do a long time ago. I do love him, but have such a hard time excepting what I go through on any given day from his . I try not to ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
How to know if a woman is interested   1/27/2022

Men in general need to have a better understanding of what to expect from women. They need to know when the ladies are saying something that means something else entirely. They need to be able to read between the lines and decipher subtle hints. When it comes to romance, a lot of men face rejection simply because they misread signals and receive mixed messages from the objects of their affection. ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Simple Ways to Make a Woman Want You   1/27/2022

Have a plan. Women don't want to be micro-managed, but sometimes it's nice not to have to make decisions. You know what she likes, or you should if you've been paying attention. Make a reservation at a restaurant or choose which movie to see and where. <br><br> Stay calm pressure. Life doesn't always go as planned. When you a bump in the road, just handle it. ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
How to know if a woman is interested2   1/27/2022

She is Everywhere If a finds you interesting, she will have a tendency to attract your attention by all means necessary. She will try to make you notice her and will give you several openings to make the first move. She will research about your daily routines and will create situations where your paths will conveniently cross. She will show in the most unexpected places or bump into you on a ...


1 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
How to know if a woman is interested 3   1/27/2022

If you need someone to go with you to the mall or to attend Sunday mass, she will be available. If you need somebody to talk to in the middle of the night, she will spend hours chatting with you over the phone. When you make yourself available in chat, she will be the first to you a message. An interested woman is never too busy for you. She will always make herself available and will be quick ...


1 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Signs of a toxic friendship   1/24/2022

They Lie attention to the things your supposed friend says. Not just to you, but to everyone that matters to them. Everyone is guilty of the occasional white lie, but someone who tells more whoppers than Burger King is decidedly shady. Guaranteed, if she's lying to her mom, brother and boss constantly, she's doing the same when she talks to you. <br><br> They Date Your Exes ...


1 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
The Mysterious Woman   1/24/2022

Your man used to be intrigued by you, and he used to crave being in your presence. However, lately he'd rather hang with his friends than you. While this may be a normal, natural state of your relationship, you did not want the mystery in your relationship to disappear. If your man is not as excited as he used to be around you, perhaps things have gotten too comfortable. During the courting ...


2 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Happy from the Inside   1/24/2022

If your man constantly talks about how you were in the beginning of your relationship, you should reflect on your old self. Did you used to laugh at his jokes? Were you happier with your job? You should reflect on how your aura has changed and improve yourself by finding a happy medium between your past and present. If your boyfriend fell in love with another version of you, then this may be a ...


1 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Independent Interests   1/24/2022

When you first started dating your boyfriend, you had your own interests. You had your own friends. You didn't wait for him to make your own plans. Months later, you started to become clingy, losing your own opinions and interests. It's okay if you don't like the same baseball team as your boyfriend does. As a matter of fact, it's okay if you hate sports. If he did not like you ...


1 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Supporting a friend in grief   1/24/2022

of the best things you can do is listen. People who are grieving often need to talk it through – perhaps again and again – in order to process what's happened as well as their feelings about it. You don't have to have the answer to their distress, or to be able to see the silver lining or even cheer them in any way. Just keeping an open ear can make a big difference. Active listening ...


1 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes