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Just how far will you go?
 
Being 43, single, and never married, I've pretty much accepted that the "traditional" sex life involving a steady partner and a loving relationship simply does not exist for me.

So here I am at Sex Friends Finder.net looking for all kinds of wild and crazy sex. Not your typical boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife type sex. I'm looking to push the envelope. Thus, the title of my blog.

So just how far would YOU go? I, for one, have an affinity for group sex. I've been in a few threesomes, a mini-orgy, and a gang bang. Each experience has left me wanting more. With each of my experiences, I have been the invited guest. I would like to have a situation where my regular partner actively participates in group sex. I'm sure there are those that might think I'm "sick or deranged" but there's something about seeing my "girlfriend/significant other/sex partner" (whatever you want to call her) getting fucked by other men. I'm not talking about "pimping" her out (Unless, of course, she get's off on it as well).

My perfect scenario would include my partner and I being a part of a group of 6-12 people that gets together in varying combinations for group sex encounters.

I'm not sure whether such things are possible but nice to dream.

I'll be back later with more ideas of just how far I'd go.
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Gimme Something to Believe In
Posted:Oct 11, 2010 8:27 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2015 7:35 pm
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First off, this is one of my favorite songs of all time! Unfortunately, this is also my state of mind when I think of my experience with Sex Friends Finder.net, or any online "adult partner matching service"

Most recently, I've maintained a "silver membership" for the past 6 months and I must say that my experience has been less than satisfactory.

For starters, the people that seem to be most active (online a lot) are for the most part non-responsive. The ones that do respond talk a great game until its suggested that we meet somewhere and see what happens next, either they disappear or they are stricken by some major life calamity that prevents them leaving the house...

Not my cup of tea. I'm a real person looking for real people for real fun, not picture trading and cyber/webcam BS.

The "Groups" section is not much better. I personally believe that Sex Friends Finder.net should automatically delete any group that has not been accessed or posted to in more than 90 days (I'd even vote for 30 days). Not only would it clear up a lot of space, it would give a better picture of which groups are truly active. It's been my experience that most of the Dallas/Fort Worth groups are pretty much dead. Dump them all and start over so we know which ones are worth visiting. I've posted to numerous DFW area groups and get the proverbial "crickets".

Another Sex Friends Finder.net trick that is frustrating as Hell is when Sex Friends Finder.net generates profiles to send out "flirts" and then when we look to respond, the profile is listed as "turned off or inactive". There are 21 of those in my "Flirt" box right now.

All in all, the online experience has been more than frustrating...Especially for a single male because almost all "adult" groups and clubs in the "outside world" are not single male friendly and finding a woman to join me in such escapades has proven to be a fruitless venture.

So if there are any "real people" out there with any thoughts, ideas, input, or suggestions that are actually pertinent, I'd like to hear them!

Give Me Something to Believe In!

Truman
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Not a happy camper...
Posted:Jul 2, 2010 11:03 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2010 6:04 pm
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I hate to vent but this is getting ridiculous. I've had a paid membership with Sex Friends Finder.net and I've rapidly come to the conclusion that Sex Friends Finder.net is a big waste of money.

Yeah, I know, ..."Well, DUH!"

This is not my first foray with Sex Friends Finder.net. I paid for a membership back in the early 2000's when I was living in Madison, WI and that was a fruitless endeavor as well. But I figured I'd give Sex Friends Finder.net the benefit of the doubt. Madison is a city of only 300,000 (When the University of Wisconsin students are in town)and once you get outside the Madison city limits, the people are sexually repressed and narrow-minded.

I figured once I moved back home to Dallas, things would be better. After all, the Dallas area has a population of roughly 7,000,000 so the percentages have to be more in my favor. Unfortunately, that has not been the case.

Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of profiles that are originating out of the Dallas. And many of them are are very appealing with their desires. However, when I send them messages, nothing. Well, ok, I have gotten a couple responses. They have usually been "one word" to "one simple sentence" replies.

Now, before everyone jumps to conclusions, I have sent well thought out messages that specifically address the details of each profile that I have responded to only to get an "Ooh, that's hot!" reply but nothing in the way of leading me to believe that an actual in-person meeting will take place.

I have even attempted to put together a group called North Dallas Recreational Sex and all I've gotten in the way of replies is "Hey, that's a great idea! Get it set up and I'll join". Well, it's set up and waiting for people to join the group. Which leads me to believe that either....A ) The bulk of the people on Sex Friends Finder.net are an "All talk, no action" lot that will say anything from the safety of their computer but don't actually set foot outside of their house to make these things happen. Or..B ) The bulk of the "profiles" are generated by Sex Friends Finder.net to give people the impression that there are plenty of like-minded people in their area in an effort to induce people to pay for memberships.

There is actually more credence to theory B because of the 51 "flirts" my profile has received in the past 30 days, 42 of them show that the profile has been "turned off" or "inactive". Another 6 are from profiles that show to be more than 200 miles away from me (Including 3 that are more than 2000 miles from me) That doesn't do me any good. Only 3 of the 51 "flirts" have been from someone accessible that is within 20 miles of my location. Yes, I have contacted 2 of the three "flirts" (The third one in no way resembled having any common interest with me.)

Nonetheless, it has become quite a frustrating adventure. Being a single male, swinger groups and couples are not very accommodating to me. Compounding my woes is the fact that I have just moved back to the Dallas area within the past year and I'm still trying to figure out where a single male can find people to play with. Especially since none of the websites (Not just Sex Friends Finder.net) seem to be very credible in delivering upon their advertised promises.

Once again, I apologize for the rant but I just had to let off some steam since no one from Sex Friends Finder.net seems to be effectively assisting me with my needs.
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Yet another exciting episode of "How Far Would You Go?"
Posted:Jan 30, 2010 2:42 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2010 6:05 pm
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a few years ago, I found myself at a bar getting invited back to the motel by the couple sitting next to me. I had barely sat down on the bed at their room when the wife started unbuckling my pants and telling me she had been wanting my cock since we were at the bar. Her husband undressed her as she was sucking my cock...needless to say, I was having a great night! Her husband and I spent the better part of the next hour fucking her every way imaginable. Then something happened that caught me off guard. As I was pulling my cock out of the wife's mouth, the husband leaned down as if he were about to suck my cock as well. Turns out, the husband was bi and part of the deal they had was that when they made their out-of-town trips, she would pick the guy but he'd get to have sex with him as well. To their credit, the couple was not high pressure at all so they backed off when they saw I was apprehensive.

To this day, however, I have often wondered. "If that situation were to present itself again, would I let the guy suck my cock? Or more?" After all, he did just let me fuck his wife. Unfortunately, I have not since found myself in that situation. I've done threesomes with married couples but nothing where the husband was bi and looking for some dick as well. I'm not bi or bi-curious, nor do I have any desire to be. But I can't help but wonder, if the situation were to present itself again, how far would I go? I'm pretty sure I'd let the guy do what he wanted with my cock. But would I return the favor? I'd have to make it a "situational call". If things were going hot enough, I'm sure I'd just go with the flow and if there were adequate encouragement from the lady present, then I may have to say "Anything Goes!"

I'd like to hear from the gallery. Just how far would YOU go? And How far is TOO far?
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More "Just how far will you go?"
Posted:Jan 20, 2010 2:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2010 4:37 pm
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A few years ago, I dated a woman that had quite a few lesbian friends. There would be numerous times that we'd all go out drinking and once we got rolling, the conversation would get pretty raunchy with everyone freely discussing sexual activities. One night, while we were good and lathered, a couple of the ladies were talking about the things the did with their strap-ons. Now these two ladies were not your "stereotypical lesbian athletes". They were smoking hot!!

After a couple rounds of drinking games and strap-on talk, I suggested that if they'd let me fuck them, I'd let them do whatever they wanted to do to me with their strap-ons. The fact that my girlfriend didn't smack me and immediately break up with me led me to think that there might be some fun in the future. We spent the rest of the summer joking around about a strap-on night but despite my insistence that I was serious about my offer, it never happened.

I have always maintained that I would let a woman play with me using a strap-on provided there was an equitable return for me. What about you? Would you go that far?
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