Do you think it's important..?  

charlesleigh78 53M/40F  
28 posts
4/22/2019 9:20 am

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Do you think it's important..?

How important is it to you, to meet up and talk to possible playmates before doing whatever floats your boat behind closed doors?
Very Important.
Somewhat important.
Not very much.
I'd rather just get laid.

2939 posts
4/22/2019 11:01 am

I need to assess the other party before committing to any shenanigans.

A pre-play allows both parties to size each other up imho.

GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1745 posts
4/22/2019 11:37 am


Sorry...I did not see your poll before I posted a similar question - only mine is in blog form, not poll form.

But my answer is very important!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL

Heathen_G 60M
6305 posts
4/22/2019 5:32 pm

So, you are asking if "Talking " is important, when you meet up with someone for the purpose of having sex?

"Talking" to say, "Hi"? Or what?

I can't imagine two strangers meeting, and without a word spoken , or ASL signed, just getting naked and having sex.

If two deaf mutes met, there wouldn't be any "Talking".

Okay, I'm curious...why are you asking if , "Talking" is important?

6071 posts
4/23/2019 9:10 pm



thejashman 34M
58 posts
4/27/2019 11:49 pm

my answer is not much imortant

RomanticRubber69 50M
21 posts
4/29/2019 9:50 pm

My philosophy with pursuing friendships on line is, you get acquainted and uncomfortable on line. Then with all the fakes and flakes out there, we meet a public place for coffee or drinks. That way, we get to see if it was who you thought it would be physically, and the established connection, chemistry and rhythm on line carried over to the personal appearance. Then we play it by ear, and hopefully play!

hunting4real 61M/52F
25 posts
4/30/2019 9:32 pm

The mental connection is very important you cannot seduce the body without seducing the mind first, and that goes for the female and the male

Lookinfor14me2 55M
35 posts
5/2/2019 10:57 pm

Strength of character is sorely lacking in today's world. A txt or an email falls short compared to looking someone in the eye and talking with them to get an informed opinion.

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