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Please don't hate the messenger lol
Publié :20/8/2019 8h35
Dernière mise à jour :24/8/2019 11h46
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A of friends here, on the site....

One of them finds out two of those friends share the same ip ...the two friends with the same ip are from different states, according to their profile.

Google it. Can two people have the same ip who live in different states?

Short answer is no, they can't.

Two people who have the same ip are either at the same workplace, at the same internet cafe or the same house.

Now, back to of friends....

It is made known to all two in the share the same ip and consequently, are one person. The two members who have the same ip passionately deny they are the same person.

1.) Based on this info and other research, half the believe the two members with the same ip are actually just one person, pretending to be two different people.

a.) some in this half of the who believe the two members are actually one person have no problem with the fact this one member is lying. But they hate the messenger with a passion.

b.) some in this half of the make the decision to un-friend the two who are lying but remain friends with everyone else in the , regardless of how any of them feel about said friend. They do not hate the messenger

2.) The other half of the either refuse to believe the facts or they won't even look at the facts about the one ip for two different people, supposedly living in different states. And they hate the messenger with a passion.

Yet they claim they are totally against drama.

If you are totally against drama, why hate the messenger?

Agree to disagree and move on. Make your decision about how you feel about this ip issue and then move on. Live and let live. But don't shoot the messenger for reporting the facts. Maybe some in the disagree with those facts or refuse to even look at the facts but...why does make the one person who reported the facts such a mortal enemy now.

No drama, please.
I actually don't think is possible on this site, or in life.
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Thank you, James!
Publié :31/7/2019 13h29
Dernière mise à jour :20/8/2019 7h53
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....for kicking me to the curb after playing with me for three months. If you hadn't done , it may have taken a lot longer for me to realize there are a lot more people on this site than I realized and...most importantly...it would have taken longer for me to stop putting so much importance on the pretend world of this site and to concentrate on sticking my neck out in the real world, for real life fun and sex.
I still put importance on the real friends I have on this site...how do I know 'real friends' from ' friends'? Just like in real life..,real friends listen to different points of view, try to understand where you are coming from, try to put themselves in your shoes, offer a different perspective with no judgements and then...most importantly....even if we disagree, we can still be friends. friends kick you to the curb the second there is a disagreement with the 'end of discussion' statement. And, at this point, I am grateful to learn they are not real friends at all, despite their affirmations they are, before 'things' get more involved between us.
I am not asking for sympathy here so please, no comments like 'boo hoo for you' lmao Be it politics, religion or relationships, I blog to voice how I feel, period. I am a big girl and can handle the strife on my own. I pick myself up, dust myself off, learn from my mistakes and carry on.
And, in this case, I come out on the plus side.
Today, I walked to my neighborhood library, got some good books, then stopped in a coffee shop for a tall iced coffee and a tasty ginger fresh baked biscotti. Instead of walking home right away, I decided to have a seat in the coffee shop and enjoy my coffee...the double front doors were wide open, sunny day, lots of people walking , stopping in...and a guy came in, about my age, and proceeded to set up his laptop on a corner table. He was about my age and we exchanged some pleasant small talk.
This may not sound like much to many of you...I tend to be reclusive, a hermit in my little apartment, content to chat with folks on this site....but, thanks to James, I now choose to put myself out there...cautiously take the plunge to engage with others in the real world...yes, even to finally invite a chat buddy to meet in real life...and man, was the best decision ever.
So thank you James....I know it was definitely not your intention to give me anything positive at all from your decision to do what you did but....I chose to find something positive from it. And I benefited, greatly!
Life is good. Live it to the max. Be real.
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good times to remember...the Speakeasy party and many others
Publié :17/7/2019 18h03
Dernière mise à jour :30/7/2019 12h55
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When things in a friendship go to the wayside, besides being angry and confused, I also try to remember the good times...

I remember when I was welcomed into a private room with open arms. You both were sooo friendly, supportive...I adored the two of you almost instantly and you both said the feelings were mutual.

I remember being the dj with another room member a few big parties in your room...before I got told that I must show my on cam every minutes to abide by the site rules, I would aim my cam a sculpture of mine and my speakers while I played the playlist that you so carefully and meticulously crafted for us to play. I learned a lot about you from the music you chose and that was fun.

I remember the Speakeasy party...such a grand event! With all your planning, it went off so nicely! I spent weeks creating two sculptures of the two of you....a in a suit and fedora and a female in a silvery tassle swingy roaring twenties short dress, based on the descriptions of your outfits for the night. That was so much fun...creating those and sharing them at the party event. Music, dancing, good times.

I remember late one night, there were only a few of us in your room when you told your story of how the two of you met. It was so cute....one of you would start the sentence and the other would finish the sentence. My heart warmed at seeing the two of you together like that.

I remember when the trolls started attacking me in your room; I offered to leave the room so that the trolls would stay away and both of you said absolutely not and hugged me tightly. And when the trolls did show up, you were ready with Big Bertha to knock them out of the water lol And because of your constant attention to doing that for a couple of days, they finally did not come back. You proved not only that your room is a safe room where trolls are not tolerated at all, you also proved that you had my back...that's what friends do for each other, you said, over and over again. And I would have done the same for you....in fact, when someone posted nasty things on your profile, I, and others, were on the phone to the abuse team, loudly protesting the abuse and demanding that the comments be removed as violations of the TOU's.

I will always remember these good times.

I still wish you would take the time to talk to me, explain to me why you chose to end our friendship so decisively...did asking for a meeting to listen to your reasons for a banning in the room resonate so soundly in such a negative way with you that you are so silent towards me? I wish it weren't so but it's out of my hands.

I will still remember the good times....
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Shhhhh Don't tell!
Publié :9/6/2019 23h06
Dernière mise à jour :29/7/2019 6h16
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I've been chatting with a guy on this site for about two years, off and on. Very easy to talk to...he listens to my rants about stuff on here and in real life, actually tries to see things from my point of view, asks questions and supports whatever decisions I make...and I do the same for him. He chats and plays with others on the site, as do I...neither of us has but a few we interact with on a regular basis. But, of all our site friends, he and I are the only two that are actually local to each other. About three months ago, we slipped very easily into sensual, sexy, cyber sex. My private Escape room on the site got a lot of use lol
Because we've been chatting for so long, I trust him...so he knows all about my family's recently purchased raw land in the area and knew that I was going camping with one family member this weekend. I took a deep breath and a big plunge into the deep end of the pool and finally decided to invite him to a real life meeting. He said he wasn't sure he would have time as he had to attend a good friend's wedding but would do everything he could to make it happen.
Since the property is owned jointly by myself and 4 siblings, we do have a few rules....one of them is that any visitors need to be approved by everyone else. Of course, this was more in reference to long term visitors. There is one sibling who is bringing home every Tom, Dick and Harry at the local pub these days lol Fine for her own apt but not so cool for jointly owned property.
So I did tell my sibling I was camping with that I might have a visitor....for the evening My sis and her husband were scheduled to leave Saturday evening; I planned on staying through late on Sunday when my was going to pick up.
But I really didn't expect Eric to show up.
My sister and her husband were just about packed up, ready to head out about 8pm when we heard and then saw a beat up truck coming down the long gravel road into the property. Occurred to that I didn't know what kind of vehicle Eric drove lol
He looked the same in real life as I'd seen him on cam so many times...but still, different. Felt like a damn teenager lmao and I could see by his big grin that he was probably feeling the same way.
Introductions were made though I only introduced him as a buddy as no one in my family knows about Sex Friends Finder.net....I am not ashamed for being here. I just value the relationship I have with all my 7 siblings and they would not understand....and that's ok. They are who they are; I am who I am. Eric knows this and agrees.
He assured my sister and her very protective husband that he was only able to stay a couple of hours...said he'd been up since 4am, getting ready for this wedding of his best friend.
So they left and the quiet settled around the meadow and the woods. I'd started a fire a couple of hours earlier so we sat around it, stretched out in lounging camp chairs, side by side....finally able to hold hands in real life. And kiss...casual at first cuz damn, he is a gentleman...something I had always liked about him. He had always made sure he knew how he felt and accepted how I felt, even if it didn't match his...and he still stuck around lol

After about half an hour, he said he had a surprise in his truck so he got up...I watched his tall, broad figure in his jeans and tee shirt lumber over to his truck. He brought back a paper bag...in it was all the stuff to make s'mores. I just laughed so hard....I always talked about how you had to have s'mores when you went camping. So we roasted marshmallows over the fire until they were dripping off the sticks, smushed them between two graham crackers with a piece of chocolate inside...and it was the ooey, gooey marshmallows that started it all lol Lauged, swiped dripping marshmallow off each other's chins, kissed and...well...you can imagine what happened next.

We have built a few 'sleeping shacks' on the property until the big main community lodge is built....x rooms, with a door, windows, shed roof and a platform bed with a foam mattress on it.

I told him I heard what he'd said about needing to get some sleep after a long day,...and he said not any more. It was raining lightly out so we dashed out from the cover of the canopy we'd been (covers the picnic tables and big bbq grill) and made it safely to the closest sleep shack...which is the nicest one...has french doors instead of just a plain front door...turns , he likes the cool, fresh, clean country air as much as I do so we opened the french doors and left them open...the cool air on our skin was invigorating.
not saying it was porn perfect lol But we didn't take too long before we got very comfortable with each other and it was like we'd known each other for a long time.
He has a breast fetish....took my breath away, literally. I had not had a guy attention to like that in a long, long time....real life or cyber. And I knew what he enjoyed most...it had been fun in cyber but wow...in real life....no words can describe it. And yeah, I took his breath away a few times too.

It was the middle of the night by the time we finally settled down to rest our eyes and our bodies...the french doors were still open, could hear the pattering of the rain on the tin roof and on the leaves of the bushes and trees outside the doors...and we were suddenly quite chilled....there were no sleeping bags or blankets in the sleep shack....I knew there were some in the trailer parked by the main picnic tables...so we put on our shoes....just our shoes lol grabbed the lantern and dashed through the light rain to the trailer...was chilly but actually felt good on the skin....we grabbed a couple of sleeping bags and dashed back to the sleep shack. We snuggled the sleeping bags until we were again...and then, we sudennly weren't so tired lol made slow, , sexy, sensual love...exploring each other just like we had in cyber...we finally drifted off to sleep close to dawn...with shared body warmth.
One of my favorite fantasies is 'breakfast sausage' and yes, I woke him up, indulging in that fantasy. Never, ever had that opportunity before...lol i've led a fairly quiet sex life, as you can tell.
There's more to the story but you get the idea....I am smiling even now as I type all this up. I told him I wanted to casually blog about our time together....always have said, if something makes you happy, shout it from the rooftops for everyone to hear...and he enthusiastically agreed. He is great at cyber sex....the best I've ever had...but other than that, his writing sucks so he's leaving it up to me to share this.
Raising my glass of bourbon and 7...cheers, Eric, thank you for a memorable time.
Now that we've broken the ice, we are already talking about our next meet and greet.
Camping has taken on a whole new light lol
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Yet another fake blog about fake profiles
Publié :25/5/2019 6h43
Dernière mise à jour :18/7/2019 15h06
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An acquaintance of mine on this site recently wrote a blog about how much he hates fake profiles. He was very passionate about how he felt. He stated that he did not care so much that one person has multiple profiles...and it is not against site rules to have multiple profiles, as long as the information in each profile is accurate. His passionate pet peeve was when someone claimed that the fake pics in the profiles were of them when, in fact, the pics were stolen from one of many sites on the net where the same pic was posted. He stated very passionately that that was the line in the sand for him.

So he has a very close female friend who has multiple profiles. He stated to me that she has admitted to him that she has multiple profiles and this is a well known fact. Again, not against the rules. I won't go into the fact that each profile is different...different age, different location, many different pics...however, I did ask this acquaintance if his friend had told him whether or not all the pics on all those profiles were actually of her. Had he ever asked her? Since that was the line in the sand for him, I thought it was an appropriate thing to ask.

He told me not to contact him ever again.

So....I guess having fake pics on a fake profile are ok as long as it's a good friend...then it's a case of 'don't ask, don't tell'.

But that's not what he wrote in his blog.

Like I said...another fake blog about fake profiles.
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just some non erotic art I am working on
Publié :26/4/2019 2h31
Dernière mise à jour :25/6/2019 2h01
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chateau de Lesches



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My little cabin in the woods...
Publié :31/1/2019 17h14
Dernière mise à jour :7/3/2019 14h45
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About a year ago, I signed an agreement with four of my siblings to purchase a 15 acre parcel of undeveloped land not too far from where I currently live.

Our dream has been to build a main Lodge with a community sized kitchen, couple bathrooms and a huge open space in the Lodge for the whole family to meet...I have 7 siblings and when we all gather a couple times a year, we've always rented group camp sites or a big community building that is big enough for all of us to visit and have fun. This Lodge and the 15 acres would be our permanent family gathering space.
The other part of our dream was to be able to build individual small retirement homes on the property, sharing the utilities.
I am on a limited income so I opted to add a 600 square foot studio space onto one end of the Lodge as my 'cabin in the woods'. I would use the community room's kitchen and bathroom.
The 15 acres is in the shape of a T with the bottom of the T being an open 5 acre meadow and the top of the T is in light woods.
It is quite wet there during the winter...several north/south canals have been dug across the property to divert standing water to a creek on the south side of the property, which flows into a river not far away. There is one area of the lightly wooded area that is knee-deep in standing water during the winter months.
We have already been paying monthly on not only the property payment but we've also gotten the electrical installed and the well done.

We had someone do an environmental study as part of the septic design system and she declared the place we'd designated to build the Lodge (the front 5 acre meadow) was not a wetland. We were looking at starting to build the Lodge this coming summer. I was hoping to move into my space in about a year.

We have just learned that the person who did the environmental study did it at the wrong time of the year to be valid. It has to be done in late February or March....the wettest time of the year in that area. She did her study last May. This study is important as it determines if the area is a wetland and therefore unbuildable.
A re-inspection done two weeks ago, of the holes she had dug for the study, showed they are now full of water so everything has been halted.

We have a meeting now for the first week of March to re-inspect. Someone from the state will go out to the property between now and then and dig more test holes, in different areas of the property...my siblings are saying he just needs to dig more test holes in the meadow area....I am trying to get them to ask him to also dig test holes in the lightly wooded area, close enough to the already-installed electrical pole and well to be used by a building but not so close as to be a problem for those utilities. Just in case all the new test holes in the meadow are full of water and the meadow is designated a wetlands.

Because if we don't have him dig the extra holes in the wooded area now so that they can also be inspected at this meeting in March, we will have to wait another year to start this process over again...the test holes must be inspected only during late February and March.

Meanwhile, my own housing situation is unclear. I live with my son and his wife. Because of a lot of circumstances, they are fairly certain they will have to sell this house...soon. They are looking at jobs and schools (my daughter in law is taking classes at Seattle U and wants to go to law school) out of state.

I was really counting on being able to move into my little cabin the woods in a year....and now that may not happen.
I have a housing voucher that expires in two months....it would allow me to move into my own apartment (or house) and get help with the rent so that I could live on my income. But if I don't use it in two months, it goes away, permanently.

The cards have been shuffled and then thrown up in the air...and there they all are, suspended in mid air....and I must tell myself to just breathe...
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The 'bro code'
Publié :3/1/2019 13h09
Dernière mise à jour :8/1/2019 9h42
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Yeah I know, that sounds a little silly but...it's kind of a serious thing....friends have been lost (hopefully temporarily) because of a lack of attention to or consideration for the 'bro code'.
I am just venting here. I am not being told what to do or what to think by anyone...anyone who knows me even slightly, knows that's like mixing oil and water...ain't gonna happen but...they use it all the time if they don't like what I am saying. Oh well.
I prefer to be a fact based person. I don't go by what just one person tells me. I ask questions to anyone who might have information that will shed light on a given subject.
The 'bro code'....is respecting a good friend on the site, just as you would in real life.
Case in point:
During the World Series...end of October, 2018, a dozen or more chatters on the site see a friend of theirs...I will call her Alice but that's not her name or handle...Alice states in several public chat rooms how very much in love she is with her guy on the site..I will call him Bob.....they are exclusive and she says Bob is 'the one', she is totally dedicated to him, etc.

Dec 7, 2018, a little over a month later.....I...and at least a dozen others....see Bob on the site with Alice in a private group chat room party setting. It's a brief visit by Alice but they are together.

Dec 31, 2018...two and a half weeks later at a NYE party in that same room...Bob and Alice are there, as well as 15 or 20 others enjoying the party. Another guy who I will call Ted is heavily flirting with Alice and she is flirting back while also chatting with Bob.
Important to note here: Bob and Ted are supposedly good buddies on the site.. A close bond.
I am dj'g the music for the party and Bob asks me to play a special song for a dance with Alice. His girl, as far as we knew. So I started playing the song. Alice does not start dancing to the romantic music with Bob. About 2/3 of the way through the song, Alice gets up on the bar counter with a bottle of booze and starts dancing, solo, laughing.

Then Ted asks me to play a song, so I do, and Ted and Alice proceed to heavily flirt and dance....close to starting a sexy scene together as they dance....right infront of Bob ...and everyone else in the room. Bob was so shocked at this display of disrespect towards him that he left the party and even logged off the site entirely.

As far as any of us knew, Bob and Alice had been an exclusive couple. She had proclaimed her love for him not even two months earlier and we'd seen them together just two and a half weeks earlier. Yes, it's a sex site and yes, people switch partners like they change their underwear. But when two ppl agree to be exclusive, it's serious. it was quite obvious to all of us, seeing this action taking place in the room, that, at some point in time, the relationship between Bob and Alice had ended. But we'd seen them together just two and a half weeks earlier.

As some of us quietly posted our discontent with what Alice and Ted were doing in the room, they started to get the idea that we weren't very happy at all. The two of them became angry at us, defensive; they saw absolutely nothing wrong with what they were doing and their posts in the room reflected this.

It wasn't just me who was shocked at this. A dozen of the regulars in the room were so angry at this disrespect being shown for Bob that we met in a private room to talk about it. We all understood that changes in 'relationships' on this site happens daily, hourly even lol That is not what angered us. It was the total lack of respect that Ted and Alice had shown for Bob...someone Alice had declared only two months earlier to be her 'one and only'. Especially given the fact that Bob and Ted were supposedly good friends,. The respectful thing for them to have done was to leave the party and start their playing privately.

In the private group rooms, we can choose to instantly ban people from the room who violate the rules of the room.
After much discussion and soul searching, we all decided that this disrespect for a good friend and fellow room owner by someone who was supposed to be a friend and by a girl who had been exclusive with him warranted banning from the room. We could not sit by and do nothing; that would send the message that we felt what they did was just fine. What they did was just about the worst thing two people can do to someone else on this site. And so we banned them.

The next day, Alice created a thread in Ted's room, stating she and Bob had not been together 'for months' and she stated there was proof on her profile of that....she stated that anyone could check it out...she stated she changed her 'relationship status' on her profile months ago when she ended that relationship with Bob.
I went to her profile and studied it very carefully. I could not find any such notification of a change. She has chosen to hide her activity, which is her right to do. I only wanted the facts because if, indeed, she had officially ended the relationship 'months ago', it might change things. I had my doubts that she had ended it 'months ago' because just two months ago, she had openly declared her complete dedication to Bob. And we'd seen them together on Dec. 7.
I asked Ted to point me to where in her profile this proof was that she stated was available for everyone to see. Maybe I just wasn't seeing it. He did not know where it was.
After several texts back and forth, it became clear that Ted did not know if such proof existed and, more importantly, he didn't care. Despite the fact that she couldn't have ended it 'months ago' as she stated, he just didn't care and refused to pursue it. As far as he is concerned, he and Alice did nothing wrong.

So the 'bro code' got trashed. And so did many friendships. It might just be a sex site but we were all friends...and friends don't do this to friends. Even on a sex site.
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some of my fav photos I have taken
Publié :19/11/2018 15h09
Dernière mise à jour :5/8/2019 7h12
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Another semi sexy female sculpture
Publié :19/11/2018 14h54
Dernière mise à jour :7/8/2019 14h57
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Just felt like working on a soft, pensive form. She's not done yet, lot of tweaking to do...and she will have hair






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opinions please
Publié :8/11/2018 15h42
Dernière mise à jour :9/6/2019 15h36
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I just about finished with my 17" male warrior sculpture. I've changed his pose quite a bit from my previous blog's photos...
Today I have added his 'genitalia', a polite term for his balls and cock I have been told I sculpt my guys too well endowed so I would like people's opinion. Let me know...too big, too small? Thanks!





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