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say its possible.
Posted:Mar 22, 2009 8:15 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2009 6:32 am
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terra naomi- say its possible

I see the lights are turning
And i look outside the stars are burning
Through this changing time
It could have been anything we want
Its fine salvation was just a passing thought.

Dont wait act now
This amazing offer wont last long
Its only a chance to pave the path were on
I know there are more exciting things to talk about
And in time well sort it out

And though they say its possible to me
I dont see how its probable
I see the course were on
Spinning farther from what i know
Ill hold on
Tell me that you wont let go
Tell me that you wont let go

And truth is such a funny thing
With all these people
Keep on telling me
They know whats best
And what to be frightened of
And all the rest are wrong
They know nothing about us

And though they say its possible to me
I dont see how its probable
I see the course were on
Spinning farther from what i know
Ill hold on
Tell me that you wont let go
Tell me that you wont let go

Im not alright

This could be something beautiful
Combine our love into something wonderful
But times are tough i know
And the pull of what we cant give up takes hold
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Rediculous-ness
Posted:Mar 18, 2009 1:36 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2009 9:01 pm
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gosh. the emails ive gotten lately. its disgusting. im so close to deleting my account.

haha. i dont get it. so in my profile, i state (CLEARLY) that in order for me to get back to you, you need to send a face pic. Every now and then I'll respond to an email from someone that doesnt that simply says "face pic please?"

i really didnt think it was a bad request. would anyone actually meet or bother talking to anyone that didnt have one? i know i wouldn't and wouldnt expect anyone to do that with me. Wouldn't you be a little sketched out if someone was like 'hey, lets meeet. oh sorry i can't send you a face pic tho.' like wtf? first off- how would you even recognize them when you meet? and second: would you really go somewhere or to someones house to meet someone when you dont even know who they are, what htey look like, how old they really are, etc etc.

i got nothing to hide. i know my flaws. i know im fat. i know im not a model. but ask anyone ive talked to more outside of this site (and from this site) that I'm very generous with my pictures.. AS LONG AS I get them in return.

if im interested and connected with you, i'd send you as many pic as your little heart desires. but there has to be something to catch my attention.. such as a fucking face pic, for a start!

At first when people would ask 'wlel you send one first, then i'll send mine' i always would do it. but i leanred very quickly there are very few honest people out there. and all the sudden it would turn into:
" i dont have a face pic, sorry. lets meet tho"
"oh. i dunno what happened. all my pics got deleted. im free tonite"
"i promise im 6ft, 200lbs, blah blah blah"

so guess what. i'm not naive anymore. ive been on this site long enough to realize you have to be tough, you have to be choosy.

I would NEVER meet with anyone not knowing what they look like ( imean its a safety issue too..). i dont know any woman that would feel safe meeting up with someone when they didnt know what they look like.

anyway. point is- MEN: if you want to get a REAL girl's attention on here, send a pic. sure we all love seeing a million pictures of your package. but when it comes down to it, even if there is no mental or romantic connection at all, we want to see who we're fucking.

i promise im really a nice person (a lot nicer than i sound on my profile and some of my blogs). but people on here (and the foolishness!) are driving me nuts!

on and ps- if your going to email me telling me im crazy and to get over myself and blah blah blah, atleast have the BALLS to not block me so i can reply what a pussy. although i do find it funny that i have hatemail
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lonely
Posted:Dec 13, 2008 7:31 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2009 4:42 pm
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i've never felt so lonely in my life. particularly today.

so much has happened this past week.

im sitting in my apartment all alone. all my roomates are gone. just me and the pup (but thank god for him!) i couldnt afford to go out even if i wanted to. no money, no gas, no money for gas til tomorrow, no one to go out with. usually what i do when i feel shitty is drive around. but since i have no gas im completely immobile. sucks.

what i should do is just go to bed. i think ive slept a total of 6 hours in the past 4 nights. last night i tossed and turned wide awake for 2 hours before getting out of bed at 2am to clean the entire apartment (hey, atleast its clean), play video games, and do some packing. i finally got back into bed at 4ish, feeling more tired. but of course i slept for about an hour before waking up at 5, tossing and turning more, and then called it quits and stayed up watching tv til i had to get ready for work.

and my phone just rang. not someone asking if i wanted to go out. it was someone asking if i wanted to be a chauffeur. using my own gas. nice. i coudlnt even if i wanted to.

so im just going to curl up with a big blanket and my puppy in our freezing cold apartment (no heat). alone. althought im not sure id want company right now. or make anyone suffer through my company. i can't keep it together lately. i actually had to be picked up and brought home from the bar last night (and no, not because i was drunk). apparently i couldnt keep myself composed. but im lucky i have friends that are willing to take care of me enough that they'd go out of their way to make sure i get home (thank you) because lets face it, sitting in the bathroom at a bar for an hour crying = pretty sad.

when it rains, it pours. right?

i know this probably isnt the right place to write about my feelings or problems. but i have no one to talk to. and no where else to write.

all i can hope is that things will get better. and that once finals are done a lot of the stress will be lifted.
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talk dirty to me
Posted:Dec 8, 2008 8:56 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2009 4:41 pm
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i've been so horny lately. i feel like i havent had sex in forever. (in reality, it really hasn't been that long...)

i dont think theres anyone that could ever completely match my sex drive. hahaa

anyyway. my challenge to you is to tell me a dirty story. something you'd do to me, with me, for me, whatever. porn gets old and i need some good, hot material to get off to

i know, im a bad, bad girl
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my birthday list
Posted:Jun 9, 2008 11:15 am
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2008 8:40 pm
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so my birthday is coming up soon. i know on my profile it says its in may and that im already 21, but i changed the month and the day for privacy purposes. so im actualy not even 21 yet.

so- just for fun - heres a (somewhat silly, but somewhat serious) list of things i'd like for my b-day hey we can all fantasize right?

-a pony. actually a . ok so what girl wouldnt want that.. even when we grow up?! and ewww get your head out of the gutter. i meant for actually riding and showing, not anything sexual, you pervs!!

- a big bottle or jager. enough said. ha oh and if you want you can throw a 4 pack of redbull there in with it. haahaha

-a tiara. ok so i like to think im pretty easy to please and not high maintenance. but everyone wants to feel like a princess (or prince) on their b-day, right?

-a mmf threesome. or a group of guys with just me. oh how id love to be taken advantage of and tortured, teased, an pleased by a group of guys who just want to take care of me hot! ive done quite a few crazy things, b ut ive yet to fulfil this fantasy!

-someone should extend my silver membership i promise in this case i'll start posting more private pics (i think i may have gotten a camera for my birthday, so this means that i can start posting pics more often!). i dont plan on paying to stay silver so come june 20th ill be back to standard. boo.

-a new rabbit. and no, this time i am not talking about an animal. i am talking about the best sex toy ever created.

-if not a rabbit, a sybian please and thanks. hahahaah

ok that is all. was just bored and having fun. hope everyone is having a good week and staying cool in this crazy weather!
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this has to be a joke.. right?!
Posted:May 24, 2008 5:22 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 7:58 pm
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ok. so i get an email from a guy on here (duh). he has one pic. except, its about 1 inch by 1 inch body pic where you cant see the face. looks like it was a professional photo of some kind. Okay, so whatever. maybe hes very good looking, and mayb ehe has had professional photos taken. i can believe that. but like i said his face isnt showing..

so i email him back, and i say usually the only way i'll email anyone is if they attach a face pic.. cuz lets face it- are there really ANY girls out there that would meet a guy without first seeing a face pic? it hasnothing to do with being shallow (although i mena.. come on there has to be SOME sort of physically attraction), more so its for safety- to ensure that this person is really and that they really are say... 30.. and not 83. hahaha. its just comforting when someone sends you one or two face pics.. makes them believable a a real person! (and im sure many people, including women agree with me)

so in my email i'm straight forward, but not rude. I just tel him i require two face pics and I will recipricate once i get his. I told him that if he wants to have any luck on this site he should be willing to send a face pic. Doesn't mean he has to post it online.. but emailing, i dont understand how thats a problem

anywaaay. he emails me back saying how hes "done it with MANY MANY women on this site without showin ga picture" and yada yada yada. says that my approach for wanting to see a face picture from every guy is stupid.

all i could do was laugh. I thought about emailing him back.. but go figure.. he blocked me so i couldnt respond. HAHAHA hilarious.

but come on now.. is that even serious?????!!! would people seriously meet from this site without first even seeing a face pic of each other??!!!

im in shock. and a little confused!
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