So I am trying to start my life over which is one of the hardest things to do. I am trying to start one of many things off with myself is that I know what I want and I dont want to just hope that the person will be a match and find later shes not.... so I was just putting what I was looking for and it was not in a way I should have. There was some good advice and comments they truly were. When I get a chance to update my profile I will until then.......