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shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
6/1/2020 10:07 am

Not for me. I have to enjoy the person and the sex or things go soft and no one has any fun..


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6/1/2020 10:08 am

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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
6/1/2020 10:11 am

YES, some (even mediocre) is better than none. If that wasn't the case, most of us would not masturbate. I think it has to do with skin-on-skin maybe.

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lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
6/1/2020 10:53 am

No, because as McGranny says, it's a bit ay a waste ay precious time!

ps - simply not good enough McBiggles, you are so gettin' a skelpin'!!

pps - and a few snogs x a gazillion too tae!!


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
6/1/2020 11:17 am

Yes. I've had some serious long bouts of singledom and celibacy, so sex, mediocre rather than bad, will be better. Mediocre sex doesn't automatically impy the person is poor company, or even unattractive to you, it just means that particular act wasn't sensationl, nor does it mean that it is all the fault of this partner

The connection and intimacy matter as much as the sex, as does the chat, the wine, the food and being with someone. Sex isn't the be all and end all

Others no doubt will have dissenting delusions


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/1/2020 11:25 am

For me no it has to be as good as you give if that makes sense. When your with that special person you both should get your desires fulfilled to the best of yourselves. Great question hun and I hope your Monday is a fantastic start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/1/2020 11:30 am

    Quoting flowerkings2012:
    Yes. I've had some serious long bouts of singledom and celibacy, so sex, mediocre rather than bad, will be better. Mediocre sex doesn't automatically impy the person is poor company, or even unattractive to you, it just means that particular act wasn't sensationl, nor does it mean that it is all the fault of this partner

    The connection and intimacy matter as much as the sex, as does the chat, the wine, the food and being with someone. Sex isn't the be all and end all

    Others no doubt will have dissenting delusions
I couldn't say it better so I won't.

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/1/2020 11:37 am

Here's a definitive answer ...... Sometimes.

Sometimes, I really, really like a person who isn't the best lover.
Sometimes, people need to be touched by hands other than their own.

Of course, since I rarely orgasm with a partner, all my sex could be considered 'mediocre' by some. We all have different definitions. I don't look at sex in a graded sense - bad, mediocre, fair, good, great - but rather how satisfied I feel overall. One of the 'worst' sexual experiences I've had included an orgasm yet left me completely unsatisfied.

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lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
6/1/2020 11:53 am

Sweetheart, If you are stranded on the road and an old guy stops by and offers you a ride, you say No? Or wait till a tall , dark and handsome guy in a Mercedes stops by?? Walk or ride is the question? Waste of time, with so so sex,? Depends on who and why.. it might be the steps into that world you are looking for. At what level does it become a mediocre action/ This is for you to decide and I would think that there are a lot of variables to play in this conception of his action,..

To answer simply, my thoughts are Sex, good sex, da best sex, all have merit. Sex is Good... it is good for you, it is natural. GO FOR IT...

just have a good day and be safe, good to see you back

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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
6/1/2020 12:19 pm

What is sex?


Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
6/1/2020 12:29 pm

No such thing as mediocre if I have anything to do with it.


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MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
6/1/2020 12:47 pm

Yeah I guess mediocre sex is better than none at all, especially if the gaps between the sessions are counted in weeks, months, or years.

But I'd still take some mediocre sex, I'd still look to learn something from it and that can't be a bad thing.

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/1/2020 1:01 pm

Obviously it's not optimal. But yeah, if I had the opportunity of a sex partner who I liked but the sex was mediocre - I'd take it over months of celibacy.

As flowerkings, cleavagefan and BJ stated, there is value in companionship, intimacy, skin to skin touch.


smileybugg69 53F
397 posts
6/1/2020 1:41 pm

I will answer here instead of my blog...depends on how long it’s been! Sometimes it is the jump you need to get back in the game. Other times one of you can just have an off day...they can’t all be outstanding sexual experiences. We all hope for more but sometimes just a touch is all you need or what they need. BUT I believe there always needs to be some emotion attached...be it friendship or love.

Oh and a big thanks for the response on my blog


lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
6/1/2020 3:32 pm

How do you know the sex is going to be mediocre beforehand? But I'd say yes, sometimes the intimacy is more important than the act itsef.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/1/2020 3:58 pm

In the present times, mediocre sex would be greatly appreciated by me.


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
6/1/2020 4:08 pm

Taken in a complete vacuum, I'd say it's not better than no sex, but sex is about so much more than sex.

Other significant factors come into play, that can't be ignored.

Do I like spending time with this person or is her personality on par with her sexual prowess?

Does she take direction and show an interest in making it an amazing experience, next time and the time after that?

Is she the only woman I've wanted to have sex with in six months or are there more than one and I had sex last weekend with someone else?

Sorry for over complicating everything, but you knew it would be me who did it.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
6/1/2020 4:16 pm

For me......the release can be satisfied with the BoB's, the connection of intimacy can make even mediocre sex morph into....making love.

So....no. I will wait, as I'd rather have nothing at all....than sell my soul and settle ~~


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/2/2020 2:07 pm

And let’s just say that 10 years ago, when my libido was higher and I also had more options for sex partners, my answer would have probably been a lot different.


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
6/2/2020 8:40 pm

What is this 'Mediocre sex' you are referring to?


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
6/3/2020 1:32 am

You are gettin' yer arse skelped an ye ken it!

The only other thing I'd add to the discussion, having read the comments, is that in my experience the sex improves with familiarity. The more I've gotten to know the girl, and her likes and dislikes sexually, the better the sex has become. So while it may not have started off as mediocre, it has certainly improved as the relationship has progressed.

And once again I find myself answering a different question. Perhaps I'm the one who'll be getting skelped!


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
6/3/2020 5:00 am

I've had good dates which ended with mediocre sex. I'd give the dater a second and maybe a third chance. If nothing has improved then I'd rather go without the sex altogether.
All this talk of connection, intimacy, etc. yes but what has that go to do with the sex part? If I want connection and intimacy I can get that from friends family pets, or through other channnels (the COVID times have forced us to find alternatives for connection and intimacy) it doesn't have to be sourced from our sexual partner.
What I'm trying to say is you don't have to fulfill all your needs from one person. And in difficult times, self-pleasure is a better option as it never fails.


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
6/3/2020 12:31 pm

LOL yeah.

It's either hit or miss but I am often surprised what's a hit and what's a miss


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
6/3/2020 1:36 pm

Is mediocre sex better than no sex at all? Why or why not?

Sorry, forgot that part.My answer would be yes. To quote a movie

Sex is like golf

You may be bad at it but when you're done, you still enjoyed it


VenusRedux2 49F
557 posts
6/3/2020 1:54 pm

Mediocre sex with a significant other is like pizza. It's easy. It's familiar. It's convenient. I don't necessarily want appetizers, wine, and desert every day of the week. Who can keep up with that nonsense? As boring as it may sound, there's a lot to be said for easy and familiar.

On the other hand, if it was with some guy I barely know, then it wouldn't be worth the hassle for mediocre sex.

Sex always comes with strings and entanglements. There's post-coital texting.

"Yeah, it was great, I really enjoyed it" (No I didn't).

"Of course it was big enough" (actually, it was, why are you so insecure about it?)

"Umm, sure, we can do that again soon" (trust me, I'll always be conveniently busy if you take me up on that).

"Ok, really, I have to go to sleep now" (seriously, what do I have to do to get you to stop texting now?)

Additionally, I have to do a lot to have sex. I have to do my hair (no, I'm a black woman, I HAVE to do my hair). I have to shave. I have to find a cute outfit. I have to make sure I smell nice (like, everywhere). I have to lotion up. I'm exhausted before I've even left the house!

And all for … what? The same orgasm I could have had at home without having to do all that?


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/3/2020 2:16 pm

Haha you made me realize that I just passed my 10 year anniversary of menopause....which is slightly horrifying! My last period was May of 2010, but it took a little while after that for my libido to drop.

I remember kind of agonizing about a relationship that I had the previous winter, because he was a nice guy, smart, and said the "L" word to me, but he had some erection problems and couldn't take Viagra - I think maybe because of high blood pressure or something? Anyway, I was very frustrated about the fact that we couldn't do PIV. Probably kind of shallow of me, but what are you gonna do? I'm guessing I would feel differently if I were in the same situation today.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/3/2020 2:20 pm

Also, I am loving VenusRedux's answer.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
6/3/2020 7:20 pm

When i was younger, i went though the period of "Mediocre sex is better than none". But now? ugh...i will pass...too much work for me, to have just a mediocre sex...i can satisfy myself, just as much with my fingers, and toys...who needs mediocre men...


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
6/5/2020 4:09 pm

BiggLala replies on 6/5/2020 1:04 am:
You may be bad at it but when you're done, you still enjoyed it
-I can't go there with you on that analogy. #1 reason is because sex involves two (at least) people. Soooo...you enjoyed mediocre sex. Okay...got it. What about the other person's enjoyment?


My apologies. I wasn't aware that it was about both's enjoyment. Your question wasn't that specific.

Is mediocre sex better than no sex at all? Why or why not?

It could be interpreted as to one's preference and not for both parties involved. Nonetheless, here is a more detailed answer.

For me - I don't plan or expect sex to be mediocre but if it ultimately turns out that way, then yes, I would still answer Yes.

Mediocre sex is still is better than no sex and having to pornhub and rub. There is the kissing and foreplay that lead up to the sex that could be enjoyable and ultimately for me, it still feels better to orgasm with someone than alone. Of course, I do prefer that my partner enjoys the experience and are not thinking it was as enjoyable as Twin Peaks Season 3. Wait, Season 3 was atrocious, so I hope they didn't think it was enjoyable as the two X-Files series finales; good but still a let down. I also hope that it was a one off and not a recurring habit because I do want her to enjoy being with me and vice versa. For any couple, mediocre sex will become a problem and it means they need to find someone else because the longer they keep dancing badly to good music, the sooner they are going to find new dance partners.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
6/8/2020 9:38 am

I reckon that depends on how long the "no sex at all" part has been going on.

Take me, for example. Give me the mediocre right now!

blog on!


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
6/11/2020 12:37 pm

I'm three and a half years without sex. I'll take no sex at all over mediocre.

I have a feeling we may be differing on the defining.

In that case, whatever your definition of mediocre is, mine is on the edges of that.

blog on!


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
6/11/2020 12:41 pm

Besides, when you consider the vast breadth of mediocre experiences in general, it's one of the best!

blog on!


Jayrodd4280 46M

6/20/2020 5:13 am

No it’s not cuz I love to eat pussy and ass to u squirt in my mouth as u suck my cock and swallow all my cum and keep sucking to get back hard as I am still eating u making u wetter and wetter so when my cock goes in that pussy u cream all over my cock and now it’s time for real sex now. That’s I like it


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