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Blogs > Ruhim1975 > When do you give up

What’s your opinion??  

Ruhim1975 58F
45 posts
12/27/2019 3:03 pm
What’s your opinion??

So I’ve been wondering for awhile now the reasons Botha ’s do the following things. Your input much appreciated

Ghosting: Before you met in person and texted.

I do this . Mainly I’m not interested haven’t met you and honestly don’t feel I need explain it.

Ghosting after meeting: I’m the type that needs closure so be ghosted after meeting in person is rude as a adult

I haven’t done this and have told them why

No picture on profile: mind goes married looking for fun and doesn’t want get caught. They don’t think they are nice looking. I have had a picture always in any of mine

Asking for dirty pictures: I haven’t asked I think it’s rude time I have is if I’m that person

Sent them pictures: I have. Had low self esteem and thought the way he was going keep talking was them. NOTE: guys don’t dick pics without asking.

Looking forward your answers
R U Him
shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
12/27/2019 3:09 pm

 I would never ghost anyone. If I can not or do not want to meet I will tell you and think it is very rude not to.


ForReal0810 46M

12/27/2019 3:13 pm

 Im with ya there...my opinion is that is rude on all levels


Unzipmeslow50xxx 55M
Ask me for a photo

12/27/2019 3:24 pm

 Ive done the ghosting thing after messaging. I'm not proud but it happens. I agree it's rude after meeting. I once had to tell a lady she wasn't my type after meeting. Not a nice way to do it, but I would rather know myself. Been guilty of the dick pics in the past. Sorry


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
12/27/2019 3:33 pm

 I am pretty careful with phone numbers nowadays, and only selectively give it out because of the scammers. With that said, I won't ghost someone. If we meet and don't hit it off, we both should have a sense of it, and we go our separate ways with that understanding. I do get Ghosted on occasion, but like anything here, I take it with a grain of salt.


Mr00Fun4U 64M

12/27/2019 3:45 pm

 I do not ghost...I will end with a message letting them know no longer interested. I find it funny when I get involved with a scammer and she just keeps asking to continue our correspondence. Internet can be a strange place.

Whats your opinion


hectorwashere 46M
Ask me for a photo
15 posts
12/27/2019 5:28 pm

 uydett


Chieftee70 47M

12/27/2019 6:23 pm

 I support you. Its rude and if the other party asks for certain pictures and videos then ok I guess. Dont want to come off as a creep. Now the party can be different cause of asking for donations, money, and personal information. Please enjoy the ride and not ghost, beg, and set ridiculous standards. We are all human.


purpleman2986 49M  
133 posts
12/27/2019 7:57 pm

 I appreciated your answers. I don’t like ghosting and don’t like to be ghosted. So I don’t do that to others.


MrIncrediblex7 40M

12/27/2019 8:13 pm

 It’s rude to ghost after a meeting


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/28/2019 8:01 pm

 I agree with the meme that was left off of this post.I've always posted a face
picture..By doing so on this site it alleviates the immature action of getting ghosted.
I've also found it saves a lot of people time from having to read my profile since It's pictures not words that sell.
Using more than all the road!


justme51 72M

6/28/2021 11:23 am

 Never send a pic with out asking. Rude in my book


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