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looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
7/21/2020 10:32 am

I notice the price isn't always the same. Keep an eye on it to be lower than normal.


shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
7/21/2020 10:34 am

Some times it is hard not to give in but with so much bad about this site I find it harder to pay for it. As for email make a contact blog, instructions are posted.. Luck to you.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
7/21/2020 10:57 am

I will give you 3 days until you upgrade.. You will get seriously pissed off without being able to do anytihng!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/21/2020 11:30 am

Did you know....if you enter some of the giveaway contests being run by other members, you may win enough for a Gold membership


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/21/2020 11:36 am

The ability to see the whole profile, to send messages and IM, is definitely a perk for a gold member...The interaction can be fun...yes...

but if you want the guaranteed sex...not so much...especially a time like this...

but again...

you can set up a private inbox on your blog, and can interact that way, too...without spending anything...but still can't see the whole profile, tho...


Heels_N_Squeals 50F
68 posts
7/21/2020 11:56 am

Your heading seems to say it all. You're taking odds on here and it's a complete gamble of many, many variables that must be considered. I'm afraid that your blog is a bit too vague for us readers to first be able to determine and understand your purpose and intent on this site to begin with. The catch 22 here is by the fact that people like myself who are standards cannot open your profile to even read it over or understand why you're on this site. Being that this is a multi-purpose site, it means that people come here for a very wide and broad range of different things. The questions must be asked...:

* What are you on this site for?
* Do you come here to find something for an in-person purpose? If so, what are the specifics of your search (actual friendship?, love?, dating?, NSA?, FWB?, certain fetishes/kinks?, etc..). From there, how common, specific or uncommon is that search in the global view of what the overall population might seek? If you're in the market seeking a midget with panty fetishes or something, then I'd say your odds for finding that would be extremely slim and likely not worth a membership upgrade. The more common, the better your odds (sort of) and likely a better reason for membership upgrade, but that too comes with a catch, because you're dealing with major competition then, which in turn, kind of lowers odds.
* Do you come here for online-only? Millions of members use this site strictly for online-only purposes (myself included). The questions then must be again asked...how important is it to you to utilize this site's online features of the services it provides? Are you willing to not only pay membership dues to not only have the ability to access certain site features, but to then practically be forced into the whole game of paying even more for the system of 'tipping' to interact with other people and certain features? Viewing profiles requires membership (in most cases). The IM is a system of points (15 required from BOTH sides). Viewing web cams is a system of points (25 required). The entire site and every function is slowly being monetized, therefore, only you can answer the questions about if it's worth it to you to pay for the services. To one person it may be worth it for various reasons, wallet size, purposes or intent; to others it's a complete waste of money.

"I get drawn back because I want see profiles, watch cams and maybe IM without having blow through points (of which I don't have many)."

The site purposely creates these catch 22 circumstances for profit....leaving behind a site of very frustrated and hostile members who cannot generally interact with one another due to most people's standard membership levels and inabilities. I find that ironic for a site that is supposedly to be about interacting, unity and success....but, as you see, it's all an enormous illusion. The very last thing this site would ever want is for two members to find success and move on happily ever after, because they'd lose memberships. The catch 22 stuff is inherently built directly into the system and masked over with a huge illusion. This is by pure design to maximize profit.

"So what do think? Is it a matter of days? Weeks? Months? Maybe hours! Who knows! And I can't email without it. What to do?!?!?"

Certain days and times have nothing to do with anything. The site has the same chances, odds and hurdles to deal with 24/7/365. In addition, the site continually keeps refining itself with it's ridiculous restrictions and limitations of hoops we all must jump through merely to do the absolute basics of anything around here. Now, before anyone jumps down my throat about it...I get it! This site is a business and it's ONLY care and concern is to generate profit. I get it! If they offer all services as free, as well as people showing up here as freebies and actually finding successes, then the site doesn't profit a cent on a service which is free and in which people use it for finding successful matches. Again, I get it! I just personally feel that they're taking things too far these days. Stepping back from the picture and looking at this site now, in comparison to 15-20 years ago, it's a complete disaster!!! There is next to a 0% success rate (by design), nobody can interact (by design), etc... . Worse yet, for those who actually DO PAY membership dues to be able to use this site, we're then constantly being bombarded by standards who blindly contact us with irrelevance and waste most of each other's time and effort in nonsense that doesn't pertain to either of us, simply because they do NOT have the ability to read profiles. This is a HUGE deal!!!! Almost 100% of my interactions with people who contact me are irrelevant inquiry which have nothing at all to do with my purpose and intent on site. Irony is that my profile will tell the reader what NOT to do when interacting with me....buttttttt how can a member read a profile if he/she has no ability to be able to read it as a standard, but still DOES have the ability to contact me via IM or something??? See the catch 22? Which is the point I make here by the site taking things too far, crumbling the unity and purposely creating these catch 22 circumstances purely on profit.

So overall, there are a ton of questions that need to be asked by yourself. The "odds" and it being "worth it" are something that only you can answer for your purpose/intent of being on site.


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