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I Did Not Want... To Make Her Wet💧... Or Did I... 😊  

Paulxx001 66M
8702 posts
6/13/2019 12:28 pm

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I Did Not Want... To Make Her Wet💧... Or Did I... 😊

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It was early, last Sunday morning. I made a left and turned my car, towards the marina. The previous night's rain, had left an inviting, six inch deep, mirrored pool of water. I considered the most obvious - 'irrational male option'. You know the one! That's where I gun the car and drive like an idiot. The one where I forge, an unrepentant hellbent path, down the middle of the street. The ten foot shower, that would be sprayed, on either side of my hurtling car, would make for an impressive show. If only there had been, anyone there - to watch. Then.... I saw her.

She was tall and fit and my kinda gal. She was walking her tiny dog - a fluffy white Shih Tzu . They hugged the very edge, of the only bits... of dry sidewalk remaining. Their heads were bowed as they tip toed carefully along. She was sharply dressed, in a short black skirt, white runners and a beige sweater that sparkled... with finely sewn glitter. I perched my arm, on the outside of my open window and slowed, to almost zero. I didn't want to make any waves.

She must have thought, that I had something to say. She took out the ear buds, from her phone, and stopped and looked at me. I hadn't planned on saying anything. I was watching the water, as it sloshed and splashed up my tires. But now, well... I felt compelled. I said the first dumb thing, that came to mind.

"I don't know who's cuter; you... or your dog."

She laughed. I continued.

"Does your husband usually let you walk your alone, this early? You never know what type of strange people, you'll run into."

She laughed again and spoke. "Oh... I'm not married. But I notice... YOU'RE wearing a ring. Perhaps you should be careful who YOU, speak with," she replied, smiling coyly.

I hesitated... just for a second. Was that an invitation?

"No... I'm not married either. Gold is my colour and it matches my watch. Look out for the water. I don't want to get you all wet," I waved... and slowly eased on... by.

Now THAT... was lame! I was kinda speechless. A rarity for me. I usually have a glib reply. She had a point, about the ring. I've worn that ring for all the years I was married and all the years, since I wasn't. I've worn it forever! It fits nice. I am used to it. It's gold and I feel odd without it. I am constantly nudging my thumb against it, playing with it... twirling it round and around. Do you know what I mean?

As I drove into the marina, I pulled off the ring and put it on my right hand. "There!" I thought. Simple enough. Looks fine and... on the right hand, it doesn't symbolize marriage. Does it? I steered my car into a spot and put it into 'Park'. Things... just didn't, feel right. My ring, was rubbing up against the shifter and my steering wheel... and everything. The short experiment, was over. The ring was going back, on my left hand.

Seven minutes later and that fucking ring, was still stuck, on my right hand. Yes... I eventually pried it, off my swollen finger. I pushed it back on my left hand... where it belonged.

Some things, are just meant to be. Some things just won't change... even, if they should. My ring looks fine, where it is. Heck... it even keeps the flies away... if I flash it.

What do you think?

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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 12:28 pm

Quite a few people, used to mention the fact, that I still wear my ring 💍 . And now they don't. They've gotten used to it. I got used to it. I like the way it feels on my hand. Is it a security blanket? Good question. I don't know. Do I really need to find an answer? 🤔 Do you wear yours?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 12:28 pm

When I meet new people... the ring rarely comes up. I say that I'm divorced but I still like to wear it... 💍
Oh and it really does... keep the flies away... if you know what I mean.... 😊


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/13/2019 12:36 pm

You know that's a great pick up line I don't know who's cuter you or your dog. And apparently it was a hit with her too. I think you should of asked her out on a date, as she did seem interested as well. Thanks for sharing another great read on the life of Paul. I hope your day continues to be a great one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


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6/13/2019 12:45 pm

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/13/2019 1:18 pm

Have you thought about resizing it to fit your middle finger instead of your ring finger?

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Classynails 66F
1675 posts
6/13/2019 1:39 pm

I kept the tiny diamond out of my wedding ring and sold the setting for the value of the gold. Had the diamond put into a setting for a necklace. Now every few years I trade the solitaire back in and upgrade to a larger diamond. All the original ring is long gone but I have a nice solitaire necklace out of the deal! I like carets!

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Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
6/13/2019 1:43 pm

If I see a ring I walk on by. If he tells me he is divorced but still wears it, I am not likely to believe him. I wonder how many women would have flirted with you but didnt because they saw the ring. Missed opportunities.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 1:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Hummingbirds? 🤔 hmmm....
I take mine off as well... when I get home.
Seems I've grown attached to it. Ya know what I mean?
If things were ever to change in your life... would you still wear it? 🤔


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 1:50 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know that's a great pick up line I don't know who's cuter you or your dog. And apparently it was a hit with her too. I think you should of asked her out on a date, as she did seem interested as well. Thanks for sharing another great read on the life of Paul. I hope your day continues to be a great one..
Oh... I know that line worked... We both laughed. Id made a connection.. But seriously.... I was parked in a foot of water. I didn't want to press and I figured... if she walks her dog there, I'll probably see her again.
She did surprise me with the ring remark. My ring never puts on a roadblock.. unless I don't feel like playing.
You know what I mean?
I don't have to ask you about your ring. But if ever things were to change would you wear it


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 1:53 pm

    Quoting  :

It IS a wedding band. But no... it's not a roadblock... unless I want it to be. 😊
So... what did you do with your ring? 💍 Chuck it?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 2:02 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Have you thought about resizing it to fit your middle finger instead of your ring finger?
Ta know... there is a story with this ring.
When we first split up... I thought it was bullshit. I didn't think our issues were beyond resolving. And.... till death do us part.... meant something.
Then.... after a while.. I just plain got used to it. Ya know?
I couldn't be bothered now. I don't give a hoot. And it doesn't put up any flags. I just share my story.
And you know me and stories... right? 😗
So.. what did you do with yours?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 2:09 pm

    Quoting Classynails:
    I kept the tiny diamond out of my wedding ring and sold the setting for the value of the gold. Had the diamond put into a setting for a necklace. Now every few years I trade the solitaire back in and upgrade to a larger diamond. All the original ring is long gone but I have a nice solitaire necklace out of the deal! I like carets!
Wow... Great ideas! 👍
I didn't have any diamonds in my band. But now... I just wear it as jewelry. It really does match my gold watch and chain.
If you met a guy (me ( and I was wearing my ring... would you find it weird or would my story make sense to you? 🤔


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 2:15 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    If I see a ring I walk on by. If he tells me he is divorced but still wears it, I am not likely to believe him. I wonder how many women would have flirted with you but didnt because they saw the ring. Missed opportunities.
Wow... you're harsh... 😊 lol 😂
Ok... but let's say that I have a good reason for wearing the ring.
Like I... like to wear it? 🤔
Naw... the ring doesn't stop 🛑 me from flirting. or them from flirting back.
And you know me... I'm so open and honest with people,.... the ring - if it ever was an issue - is soon forgotten.
So you wouldn't talk with me? 🤔
Come on... I'm fun! lol... 😊
Well... I've had the Damn thing for so long I'd feel naked without it.
What did you do with yours?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 2:22 pm

    Quoting  :

hmmm... Well... you could always do what Classynails did - take out the diamond, sell the ring and set the stone in a necklace..
Well... that's what she did.
It's totally different for women, isn't it
À man simply has a band. It's just a plain looking ring. 💍


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/13/2019 4:34 pm

The day we separated the ring came off, and has never gone back on. I sold the ring, for an obscenely low amount, none of my children wanted it.

Sometimes, I miss having a ring on, my thumb will go to my finger to try and spin it. I have a cheap, flashy ring that I wear on that finger on certain occasions, if I want to be left alone, lol.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/13/2019 4:35 pm

Naughty is pretty right!! I would leave if someone I was supposed to meet showed up with his ring on- lotta unsolved mental/emotional things going on that I have no desire to learn about. It's symbolizes a link and the atmosphere is not totally open. And no I do not even know where mine is- ?? safe deposit box as an hedge against a financial crisis?? Guess I will have to go take a look

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Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
6/13/2019 5:12 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow... you're harsh... 😊 lol 😂
    Ok... but let's say that I have a good reason for wearing the ring.
    Like I... like to wear it? 🤔
    Naw... the ring doesn't stop 🛑 me from flirting. or them from flirting back.
    And you know me... I'm so open and honest with people,.... the ring - if it ever was an issue - is soon forgotten.
    So you wouldn't talk with me? 🤔
    Come on... I'm fun! lol... 😊
    Well... I've had the Damn thing for so long I'd feel naked without it.
    What did you do with yours?
Its a dead stop for any flirting from me if I see a wedding ring. So normally yes I wouldnt get the story behind why the ring is being worn. I did keep the engagement ring in case my daughter wants it some day. So far she doesnt.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/13/2019 5:35 pm

What did I do with mine?

I resized my engagement ring to fit my right hand. I took both wedding bands - mine and my late husband's - and had them remade into a necklace ….. which I later sold during a financial crisis.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 6:04 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    The day we separated the ring came off, and has never gone back on. I sold the ring, for an obscenely low amount, none of my children wanted it.

    Sometimes, I miss having a ring on, my thumb will go to my finger to try and spin it. I have a cheap, flashy ring that I wear on that finger on certain occasions, if I want to be left alone, lol.
That's funny... and sure. I can relate. I never thought of my ring, as anything more than, just... a gold ring that looks good.
Anyway.. now you know... you won't be surprised.. 😊
The day you separated? Wow.
Were you surprised... or were you expecting it? 🤔


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 6:22 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Naughty is pretty right!! I would leave if someone I was supposed to meet showed up with his ring on- lotta unsolved mental/emotional things going on that I have no desire to learn about. It's symbolizes a link and the atmosphere is not totally open. And no I do not even know where mine is- ?? safe deposit box as an hedge against a financial crisis?? Guess I will have to go take a look
True... but if you'd spent some time... chatting and getting to know the person... you'd write that ring thing.. OFF.
Let's face it... if we met.. We'd be fine... 😊
Iike gold. What color do you like? 🤔
It's a habit and a feeling. Years create that. Don't they?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 6:27 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Its a dead stop for any flirting from me if I see a wedding ring. So normally yes I wouldnt get the story behind why the ring is being worn. I did keep the engagement ring in case my daughter wants it some day. So far she doesnt.
Your daughter? Oooo... that's interesting. Do you think she'll be interested? How many movies have you seen where THAT ring gets refuses... omg...
Anyway... if it came to me... you'd figure out in a hurry.... that the ring was just a shallow imprint... of what went best with my skin tone, my watch.. and the colour of my eyes... We'd laugh... 😊
No?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/13/2019 6:33 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    What did I do with mine?

    I resized my engagement ring to fit my right hand. I took both wedding bands - mine and my late husband's - and had them remade into a necklace ….. which I later sold during a financial crisis.
Ya know what? If I wasn't so lazy... and un imaginative... I might have done something.
But you know what? I asked someone today... if they've ever noticed my ring and they replied : "No." And then they laughed... They were surprised that they never had seen it.
Anyway... I think... That ring is just an excuse for someone to say Hello,... or for someone to walk away.
I like open minds. You? 🤔


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 5:04 am

    Quoting  :

Yep... 😊 For sure. It's just never been an issue...
Except after I posted this blog... lol 😀
Yeah... just never comes up 👆.
So what did you do with yours? 🤔


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/14/2019 7:20 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ya know what? If I wasn't so lazy... and un imaginative... I might have done something.
    But you know what? I asked someone today... if they've ever noticed my ring and they replied : "No." And then they laughed... They were surprised that they never had seen it.
    Anyway... I think... That ring is just an excuse for someone to say Hello,... or for someone to walk away.
    I like open minds. You? 🤔
Like most women, if I see a wedding band I wouldn't make an approach. If he somehow got me in conversation, I would mention it and listen to the story. I would try to be open minded about it but a part of me would always be skeptical until time/events proved him right.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
6/14/2019 9:13 am

IF your feeling comfortable with a ring on your ring finger , go buy yourself a ring with your birthstone and pack away the wedding ring.

my wedding rings are packed away and willed to my kids.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 11:19 am

    Quoting  :

Yep... I agree 👍. 😊
Hmmm.. I hope they did something useful with the money. 💵


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 11:25 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Like most women, if I see a wedding band I wouldn't make an approach. If he somehow got me in conversation, I would mention it and listen to the story. I would try to be open minded about it but a part of me would always be skeptical until time/events proved him right.
Good points. I'll keep a picture of my divorce papers on my phone. Thanks for the tip... 👍😁
Besides... why would a guy be stupid enough to wear his ring 💍.... unless it meant... absolutely... nothing? 🤔
That's my theory... Anyway, I'm an honest guy Look at my pics... 😊
Not THOSE... for f.. k's sake... lol 😂
The ones where you see me eyes. You can tell a lot, by looking into someone's eyes 👀... 😎


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 11:30 am

    Quoting  :

Kool... 😊


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 11:37 am

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    IF your feeling comfortable with a ring on your ring finger , go buy yourself a ring with your birthstone and pack away the wedding ring.

    my wedding rings are packed away and willed to my kids.
Yeah... I wouldn't pack away the ring... I might just redesign it... or something..
In the meantime... a bunch of other things on my to-do list 📃
You know what I mean...
Maybe your kids will appreciate it... 😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
6/14/2019 12:08 pm

If a man approached me wearing a band on this left ring finger, I would definitely notice it. Would I refuse to talk to him? Of course not. I would listen to his 'story' . If there was mutual interest, and if I had any doubts, I would ask him about the significance of his ring. I have met engineering grads who wear them. And as someone recently pointed out, in some cultures the wedding ring is worn on the ring finger on the right hand.
My rings came off when we separated and I have them tucked away for my daughter. Occasionally, I thought about having them redesigned but just never bothered.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 12:34 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    If a man approached me wearing a band on this left ring finger, I would definitely notice it. Would I refuse to talk to him? Of course not. I would listen to his 'story' . If there was mutual interest, and if I had any doubts, I would ask him about the significance of his ring. I have met engineering grads who wear them. And as someone recently pointed out, in some cultures the wedding ring is worn on the ring finger on the right hand.
    My rings came off when we separated and I have them tucked away for my daughter. Occasionally, I thought about having them redesigned but just never bothered.
If push came to shove... I'd show a pic of my divorce papers... 😊
Oh... and my story is a good one.... 👍🤔


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
6/14/2019 7:38 pm

Not all guys who are married wear a ring, so I tend to look for "white lines' or skin indentations on the ring finger of the left hand.

In some cities where I live, wearing a ring on your right hand can indicate that you're part of a same sex coupling, and/or even a triad involving another same sex or opposite gender partner. So yeah, let the confusion commence!

There are a few people here, men and women alike, who will wear a ring on their left hand to ward off undesirables, if they're out with friends and don't wish to be approached.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 8:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Yep... true. 🤔 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 8:34 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    Not all guys who are married wear a ring, so I tend to look for "white lines' or skin indentations on the ring finger of the left hand.

    In some cities where I live, wearing a ring on your right hand can indicate that you're part of a same sex coupling, and/or even a triad involving another same sex or opposite gender partner. So yeah, let the confusion commence!

    There are a few people here, men and women alike, who will wear a ring on their left hand to ward off undesirables, if they're out with friends and don't wish to be approached.
That's what goes down in Canyon? 🤔 OMG... lol 😂 That's quite the set of rules to follow.
You actually look at someone's ring finger?
Anyway... I'm good. It was never an issue, until I posted this silly blog. omg.. 😊 lol 😂
Now... I'm thinking about it....... not! 😉
I guess it DOES keep some women away. But I don't notice anyone NOT saying hello, because of it.
So... what about yours?
If I said hello... would you write me off... before I'd have a chance to explain? 🤔


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/14/2019 8:36 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That's funny... and sure. I can relate. I never thought of my ring, as anything more than, just... a gold ring that looks good.
    Anyway.. now you know... you won't be surprised.. 😊
    The day you separated? Wow.
    Were you surprised... or were you expecting it? 🤔
We'd been having trouble for quite a long time, so it was a relief. I didn't expect it at that point, but it was going to happen eventually, and the timing was exactly when it needed to happen.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/14/2019 9:27 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    We'd been having trouble for quite a long time, so it was a relief. I didn't expect it at that point, but it was going to happen eventually, and the timing was exactly when it needed to happen.
Wow... Relief... as if you knew...
I guess you couldn't do anything to change things.
That's worth it a blog post... no? Your thoughts on THAT day.
Just a thought... 😊
It's fascinating... isn't it? We think it's going to last and then... NAMM.. It explodes..
😘 Well... Is read it.


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/15/2019 6:01 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow... Relief... as if you knew...
    I guess you couldn't do anything to change things.
    That's worth it a blog post... no? Your thoughts on THAT day.
    Just a thought... 😊
    It's fascinating... isn't it? We think it's going to last and then... NAMM.. It explodes..
    😘 Well... Is read it.
It was a relief because I didn't have to be the one that left. I was waiting until the end of my youngest child's last year of high school.

It wasn't just a day, it was a weekend. He just didn't come home. I texted him for 2 days with no response. Finally, he responded on Sunday morning to say he though we should separate. I replied "I agree", and I took off my ring.

He'd been unfaithful with multiple women in the previous few years. He didn't flaunt it, but he wasn't really hiding it either. Even his kids were suspicious of his behavior.

He's a narcissist. He doesn't like dealing with emotion, nor being confronted by the disappointment of people he feels should love and respect him (of course he demands the respect, he hasn't earned it). I had to tell our children, our families, our common friends (because he moved out of town and never had to face the questions. That was when I started to learn how strong I was.

I will never forgive him for hurting our children. They haven't healed, it's been 7 years. They also are not close to him, and that breaks my heart. I am close to my dad...and I wanted my children to have a dad like mine...I chose wrong, and I carry guilt about that. But, I am also wise enough to know that I can't fix any relationship between them...they have to want to fix it and they have to do the fixing.

This topic might make an interesting blog post or two...my first reaction was no, I don't want to talk about that. But, as I'm typing this, I'm realizing that maybe I do have something to say about it.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 replies on 6/15/2019 1:24 pm:
That's sad 😔.
And blog worthy... if you're so inclined.
My ex and I shared the kids, so my situation was completely different. I had them every weekend and holidays and summers... Enrolled them in all sorts of activities and Scouts... Yeah... 😊
But I was seriously pissed off... at the beginning...
Just an aside... ever since I posted this blog... I'm so conscious of my stupid ring.. lol 😂
Oh well... Sure.
. Write your story... 😊

BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
6/15/2019 12:40 pm

Rings and water - good story Paul! Hope you're enjoying your weekend?!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/15/2019 1:01 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Rings and water - good story Paul! Hope you're enjoying your weekend?!
Well... it came to pass like that. I haven't given my ring 💍 a thought 💭 for years now. That woman 👩 made me think about it.
What about you? 👀 No ring stories? 🤔
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RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
6/15/2019 3:52 pm

That's what goes down in Canyon? 🤔 OMG... lol 😂 That's quite the set of rules to follow.
You actually look at someone's ring finger?
Anyway... I'm good. It was never an issue, until I posted this silly blog. omg.. 😊 lol 😂
Now... I'm thinking about it....... not! 😉
I guess it DOES keep some women away. But I don't notice anyone NOT saying hello, because of it.
So... what about yours?
If I said hello... would you write me off... before I'd have a chance to explain? 🤔

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Well, it's not so prevalent here in my town as it is in other cities. Not so much "rules" as it is more of common decency that most people here adhere to.

Yes, I do look at the ring finger, as some men who are married (or were at that time) have tried to pull one over on me. I'm a lady who believes that there are still some people out there who are decent, honest, and have respect for others. You took a vow to be faithful to one person for the rest of your lives, or until love lasts in some cases. That isn't something to take lightly.

I have never been married, much less engaged. Not unless you'd count a silver chain necklace as an engagement symbol. If that's the case, then I'm still engaged to the guy I dated while in my 20s! I haven't seen him since I was 27 however.
Would your wearing of a ring stop me from talking to you? No, though I would inquire about it and as to why you still wear it.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 replies on 6/15/2019 7:52 pm:
I understand where you're coming from. I imagine in a larger city, I'm not paying attention.
Still engaged? hmmm... I'm sure there's a blog post there somewhere? 🤔, 😊

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/17/2019 11:50 am

I'm in the camp with the women who think you might be putting off women from flirting with you by wearing a ring on your left hand.

It's my experience that a lot of men are kind of clueless about wedding band on the left hand; whereas for most women that's the FIRST thing they check if they notice an attractive stranger.

I'm seeing a pattern here that I often see in one of the Fetlife groups I belong to - men ask a question wanting to hear women's honest answer, but if it's not what he wants to hear he argues with their responses! If I were you I'd pay attention to the fact that the majority of your female readers said they don't flirt with men wearing wedding rings and would be dubious about him saying he's divorced but still likes to wear it.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
6/17/2019 5:10 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I'm in the camp with the women who think you might be putting off women from flirting with you by wearing a ring on your left hand.

    It's my experience that a lot of men are kind of clueless about wedding band on the left hand; whereas for most women that's the FIRST thing they check if they notice an attractive stranger.

    I'm seeing a pattern here that I often see in one of the Fetlife groups I belong to - men ask a question wanting to hear women's honest answer, but if it's not what he wants to hear he argues with their responses! If I were you I'd pay attention to the fact that the majority of your female readers said they don't flirt with men wearing wedding rings and would be dubious about him saying he's divorced but still likes to wear it.
You guys have a camp? 🤔 Kool... I love camps... Do you have canoes? ⛵
Yeah... this post, was strictly for shits and giggles and I've never really thought much about my ring.
You're theory might be valid... but not exclusive, to your FetLife observations.
In any case... my "ring" has never impinged on my casual lifestyle, or prevented me from trying to pry it off.... on order to get Fucked.... I manage with or without it... They... seem to get it... and we laugh.
I'm not a player who cares much about, what the non believers think...m nor about stereotypes or presumptions.
Open minds... glib tongues... quick thinkers and ladies who laugh easily... tend to draw me up close to them.
The Ring.... well... it eventually gets in the way... And I put it on the dresser. 😊
If I were to meet you... my ring 💍 would be a non entity...
The whips and rope... it would be a negotiable element. I'm flexible.
You?


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