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Are You Afraid Of Being Exposed? ðŸ˜ą 😁  

Paulxx001 66M
8702 posts
2/7/2019 1:34 am

Last Read:
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Are You Afraid Of Being Exposed? ðŸ˜ą 😁

There are so many internet hackers out there, AND accidental website glitches...

Are you afraid of having your true... 'A F F' identity, exposed to the world?
ðŸ˜ą

I guess you should have thought twice about posting dic or pussy pics and doing that 'live - cam' thingy, every Tuesday and Thursday. ðŸĪ” . .
No... Who cares if anyone knows?
Maybe... I would be annoyed, but not devastated.
Yes.. That would impact my career and private life.
OMG... Where is that hole I can hide in? I guess I will have to move... again! .



Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 1:35 am

I think some of my book club members would be surprised.. if I was a member of one... ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 1:37 am

Seriously.. Who cares? If anyone were to say anything, I'd say it was none of their business.... ðŸ˜ķ


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 1:39 am

.. and who knows.. it might open up some opportunities at work... I'm thinking about that woman in sales. If she were to come up to me smiling... with a question about A F F.. Hey... Lol 😁😊😘


Yours_4A_knight 59M

2/7/2019 2:02 am

It has happened to me and it was not a big thing though the friends who noticed me kept it to themselves, so as not to expose there own Sex Friends Finder.net account

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


jason2371961 63M
432 posts
2/7/2019 2:43 am

not what i would want to happen . but have been exposed before and was not happy about it


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2019 2:50 am

Might make for some initial awkward moments. I have recognized people on here that I knew from ‘out there’ in the world, including my work place. Never said anything to them about it. There was no reason to.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
2/7/2019 4:39 am

No...I don't care if I'm exposed. It's not like I'm running for president.
Hmm maybe it would actually get me elected.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


mc_justmc 63M

2/7/2019 8:19 am

nothing to hide


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/7/2019 9:51 am

Honestly I have nothing to hide, great poll Paul. Really makes us think, I hope you have a wonderful day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:09 am

    Quoting  :

You? Annoyed? Never... Lol 😁 Perhaps livid, for an hour or so.... Omg... ðŸ˜ą
Then... you'd be back to normal. But anyway.. it's not as if you're hiding,.. Right?
You're right out there! 😘
Who knows? Might be good for business? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:11 am

    Quoting Yours_4A_knight:
    It has happened to me and it was not a big thing though the friends who noticed me kept it to themselves, so as not to expose there own Sex Friends Finder.net account
Well.. That's interesting. No way they would say anything, if they were here as well. Still.. It must have been annoying.... ðŸ˜ķ Good to see you survived! 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:15 am

    Quoting  :

You....? Embarrassed? No.... 😁
You've got great assets and everything to be proud of. 😘
It might open some doors for you? A consoling hand on your shoulder, might be reassuring... 😍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:18 am

    Quoting jason2371961:
    not what i would want to happen . but have been exposed before and was not happy about it
Did any friends find out?
I'd be annoyed with the site and the hackers more than anything... But yep.. I'd be ticked a touch... ðŸ˜ķ


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:24 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Might make for some initial awkward moments. I have recognized people on here that I knew from ‘out there’ in the world, including my work place. Never said anything to them about it. There was no reason to.
Initial awkward moments? Hmm... You don't post any revealing pics.. Unless you mean, you'd be shy to have seen them? You don't seem like the shy type... ðŸĪ”
What would happen if we met... accidentally...? Which image of mine would you retain, to impact our first 'Hello' ? ðŸ˜ą Would your eyes remain fixed on mine... or would they drift....? 😎😀
Did you look at those co-workers in a different light? ðŸ’Ą


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:31 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    No...I don't care if I'm exposed. It's not like I'm running for president.
    Hmm maybe it would actually get me elected.
No... I wouldn't imagine that you would... 😁
If I met you at a Walmart.. I might ask you for an autograph... 😁 or more... ðŸĪ” 😘
President.. Hmmm.. That's a thought! 🙄
Need a campagne manager? Hang on a second.. I'll delete my profile.... 😜


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:36 am

    Quoting  :

Hmmm. I Agree about the personal life impact. ðŸĪ”
Professionally? There's a thought. I'm wondering if the people at my work are on this site? I'd be curious to find out... Lol.... ðŸ˜ą
Who knows who's a member at your place of work? Perhaps you can start identifying them with some sort of secret handshake.. ðŸĪ”
Or not... It's just a thought.... 💭


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:43 am

    Quoting  :

True... There you are.... Smiling at me! 😁
That guy at work... I hope he had more than a dick pic on his profile, with which to identify him... otherwise... you're pulling down zippers all day.... ðŸ˜ąðŸ˜˜ Could be interesting...
Sure.. Say Hi.. I'll bet he'd be in shock and then... Who knows...? 😍
I'd love to sneak up behind you and say - "Guess who?"
That would be fun! 😊


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:45 am

Yep... I'm with you there.. 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 10:52 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Honestly I have nothing to hide, great poll Paul. Really makes us think, I hope you have a wonderful day..
True.. I wouldn't expect you to...😁
When I first started here I thought about it. Now... well, I guess.. I could care less. ðŸĪ”
Of course.. if there was an 'A F F meet and greet', I guess I'd have to go pantless, so people would recognize me... Hmmm.. ðŸĪ”ðŸ˜ą
Maybe I should post a few more face pics... ðŸ˜ķ
Hey girl.. Happy Thursday! 😘


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 11:13 am

    Quoting  :

Of course... Completely understandable... ðŸĪ”
Perhaps one day... things might change...? 😘
Until then... 👍


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
2/7/2019 11:37 am

It would be a problem for me but I dont see the need to put my face here. Just my preference. Im not worried about anyone recognizing me from my pictures but why lose my job over this?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 12:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Eee... 😎 No worries.. Neither would I... 😁


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 12:21 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    It would be a problem for me but I dont see the need to put my face here. Just my preference. Im not worried about anyone recognizing me from my pictures but why lose my job over this?
Good point... where your job is at stake. No need to risk that! ðŸ˜ą
And... well... I'd have to ask you to bend over, and then flip your skirt. for me to even take a guess. Although - that might be fun... ðŸĪ”😘 That would be a lot of fun! 😁


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
2/7/2019 1:10 pm

Guess this can be a bit risky - (and esp when you do um ..... you know, "when in Rome .....")! The thing though, maybe and hopefully whoever may come across you, even figure out it's you, (reason I try to cover parts of my face with a pink heart, although I have shown my face almost completely on occassion), is that the person who recognizes you, well, perhaps he, she won't want to admit it, cos if this place is so bad then why are they here?! They'd have to admit to visiting or being a member of this sexy place?! Truth be told there are some very great members here - yep, like you Paul! So the friends you make - somehow may even be worth the risk?! And I wrote you an essay - sorry, but you have put in a Blog what most of us def do worry about - Society still dictates and all that! But to me, the human bod, man or woman is beautiful!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
(Remember if you feel like taking part in some sexy fun then click here!) Come on Some Sketch Fun
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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 1:39 pm

True... They would then have to admit that they were here. ðŸĪ”
Aww.. Thanks.. And you as well.... ðŸĪ— And there are many! 😘
I would recognize you.. Lol.. And I wouldn't need much to do that... 😊
They are beautiful... 😉 Well.. most of them.... 😍😎


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 4:03 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Guess this can be a bit risky - (and esp when you do um ..... you know, "when in Rome .....")! The thing though, maybe and hopefully whoever may come across you, even figure out it's you, (reason I try to cover parts of my face with a pink heart, although I have shown my face almost completely on occassion), is that the person who recognizes you, well, perhaps he, she won't want to admit it, cos if this place is so bad then why are they here?! They'd have to admit to visiting or being a member of this sexy place?! Truth be told there are some very great members here - yep, like you Paul! So the friends you make - somehow may even be worth the risk?! And I wrote you an essay - sorry, but you have put in a Blog what most of us def do worry about - Society still dictates and all that! But to me, the human bod, man or woman is beautiful!
True... They would then have to admit that they were here. ðŸĪ”
Aww.. Thanks.. And you as well.... ðŸĪ— And there are many! 😘
I would recognize you.. Lol.. And I wouldn't need much to do that... 😊
They are beautiful... 😉 Well.. most of them.... 😍😎


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 4:06 pm

    Quoting  :

True.. You're always smiling and confident.. 😘😁
Yep.. I'd ring your doorbell.. for sure.. I'd bring a gift.. 💍😍😘


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 4:13 pm

    Quoting  :

True about a professional career tripping on one's A F F affiliation. That would be a pain. 😭
And I'd be annoyed, on principal, that my info was compromised. Yep. That would tick me off. ✅😕
About that wealth thingy.... ? ðŸĪ”
Why would you abandon us because of your wealth? 💰ðŸ’ĩ
I thought it was fun here for you?
True.. You could afford any guy you'd, want. But that doesn't sound like you? Not judging btw. Just a thought.
You'd hang out with us.. Lol 😘 In fact, I'm betting that you'd probably pick up the first round... ðŸū🍚ðŸđðŸļðŸŧ


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/7/2019 8:03 pm

    Quoting  :

You're funny and so cute and oh so sexy.. 😘😍ðŸ”Ĩ
I have no need for liquid insentives for you to take advantage of me... I can be taken advantage of o naturel... '.. But, I will bring something for you... 🍷ðŸŧðŸū Yep.. Later.. I'll text before I leave... 😘


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/8/2019 1:52 am

    Quoting  :

True... 👍 You're like me in that regard. 😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 9:37 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Initial awkward moments? Hmm... You don't post any revealing pics.. Unless you mean, you'd be shy to have seen them? You don't seem like the shy type... ðŸĪ”
    What would happen if we met... accidentally...? Which image of mine would you retain, to impact our first 'Hello' ? ðŸ˜ą Would your eyes remain fixed on mine... or would they drift....? 😎😀
    Did you look at those co-workers in a different light? ðŸ’Ą
Nope-definitely not the ‘shy’ type.
It’s not a question of what I had or hadn’t seen of co-workers; more a matter of not thinking ðŸĪ” about them in any intimate way.
If we met ‘accidentally’, I would be thinking of your face pic as it’s the best way to identify you. And yes, I would be looking into your eyes 👀 They are usually more telling than spoken words.


oralguy200 77M
26 posts
2/8/2019 11:19 am

I would but its kind of stupid. Most women could care less about dick [ics


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/8/2019 11:42 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Nope-definitely not the ‘shy’ type.
    It’s not a question of what I had or hadn’t seen of co-workers; more a matter of not thinking ðŸĪ” about them in any intimate way.
    If we met ‘accidentally’, I would be thinking of your face pic as it’s the best way to identify you. And yes, I would be looking into your eyes 👀 They are usually more telling than spoken words.
True.. If you don't see someone in 'that' way.
Most men (myself included), are pervs, shallow and driven by naked thoughts, so I'd always see a co - worker (woman, at least), naked. Or at least as naked as her A F F pics permitted. 😉
So you'd focus on eyes.. 👀 Really...? ðŸĪ”That's deep... but words are worthy focul points, as well. In my case (unfortunately), they sometimes predominate... 😔😁😘... and that's not all bad.. all the time...
Talk to me...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/8/2019 11:46 am

    Quoting oralguy200:
    I would but its kind of stupid. Most women could care less about dick [ics
True... They claim they don't. Or is it just something they say - to throw us off balance. 😁
I know at least a few, who do... not mind those pics, that is. ðŸ“ļðŸ˜ą ... Thanks for popping by... 👍


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
2/8/2019 11:04 pm

I doubt I'll run into anyone I know on here from either personal or professional life, though I've learned over the years not to tempt the Fates. They're fickle like that.

That said, I'm not worried. No risquÃĐ pics to show, unless we've been communicating for a while. There's more of a risk on people's FB pages these days.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/9/2019 4:35 am

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    I doubt I'll run into anyone I know on here from either personal or professional life, though I've learned over the years not to tempt the Fates. They're fickle like that.

    That said, I'm not worried. No risquÃĐ pics to show, unless we've been communicating for a while. There's more of a risk on people's FB pages these days.
No.. Fate is funny.. the way she shows up randomly. ðŸĪ” No risquÃĐ pics between us yet...? Whatcha waiting for girl ? My Blog Private Mail Box is waiting... 😁😘
So true about FB. isn't it? I have to agree! 😉
Your profile description.. that Oreo? Funny stuff ! Good one! 👌👍😀
Hey.. Thanks for popping in..... ☕😊


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
2/9/2019 2:17 pm

Not worried no one would know this is me from the pictures.or blog or anything....


RetMarine97756 64M
36 posts
2/9/2019 6:03 pm

Make no mistake: when you are exposed on Sex Friends Finder.net, you are exposed everywhere.


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
2/9/2019 6:10 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    No.. Fate is funny.. the way she shows up randomly. ðŸĪ” No risquÃĐ pics between us yet...? Whatcha waiting for girl ? My Blog Private Mail Box is waiting... 😁😘
    So true about FB. isn't it? I have to agree! 😉
    Your profile description.. that Oreo? Funny stuff ! Good one! 👌👍😀
    Hey.. Thanks for popping in..... ☕😊
The description about Oreo cookies... funny thing. It was a meme I snaked off of FB. and has been circulating around for the past four years or so.

Though TBH, you get a much better reaction when told to in person.

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/9/2019 7:13 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    The description about Oreo cookies... funny thing. It was a meme I snaked off of FB. and has been circulating around for the past four years or so.

    Though TBH, you get a much better reaction when told to in person.
Ahhh.. I guess I've lived a sheltered life (recently), as I haven't seen that one. Then again, I'm not on FB as often as I used to be.
Told in person? ðŸ˜ą Now that... is probably true... as I think about it... Lol 😘
Hmmm... You're right! I imagined you saying it and it works... really nicely for me. 😊


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/9/2019 7:23 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Not worried no one would know this is me from the pictures.or blog or anything....
... And that's a great way to manage things ... Good for you! 👍😊 Always good to be careful... 👌


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/9/2019 7:26 pm

    Quoting RetMarine97756:
    Make no mistake: when you are exposed on Sex Friends Finder.net, you are exposed everywhere.
... That's true, and you have to be ready to live with those consequences.. Whatever they are... ðŸĪ”
Thanks for sharing that thought... 👍


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
2/10/2019 6:40 pm

Nothing to hide here, some of my grand children might have a word or to, but no problems, just would not like the hassle in the neighborhood.. thanks for the post!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/10/2019 9:13 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Nothing to hide here, some of my grand children might have a word or to, but no problems, just would not like the hassle in the neighborhood.. thanks for the post!
Yep. I hear you. I could care less either. I think if someone was paranoid - they shouldn't be here... Thanks for popping by. 👍


pesting 45M
19 posts
2/11/2019 7:51 am

id say lots of people no but dont say anything to me that is . lol


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/11/2019 8:48 am

    Quoting pesting:
    id say lots of people no but dont say anything to me that is . lol
No worries.. It's all good... 👍


Mandythot 25F

2/11/2019 10:35 am

Yes, I'll be a certified teacher soon. Do not want future employers
, Parents or students knowing.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/11/2019 10:46 am

    Quoting Mandythot:
    Yes, I'll be a certified teacher soon. Do not want future employers
    , Parents or students knowing.
Yes Mandy... You're right about that! ðŸ˜ą
Although, I will say that, parents these days (especially the Dads), might be more forgiving and flexible, when it comes to judging, a teacher's personal choices. 😊 The administrators, probably... not so much. Hmmm... ðŸĪ”
Nice profile pic BTW... 👍 Stop by any time. ðŸ˜ķ


driveme81 44M
33 posts
2/11/2019 2:35 pm

sicuramente sarei al quanto imbarazzato direi...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/11/2019 4:07 pm

    Quoting driveme81:
    sicuramente sarei al quanto imbarazzato direi...
Capisco. Poi di nuovo ... Non hai nulla di cui imbarazzarti ... Grazie per essere passato.😁👍
Thanks for stopping by... 👌


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/12/2019 8:12 pm

Hell yes!
Having people know that I am interested in the most common and natural
activity we can share as human beings would be devastating.It's hard enough
that people know that two people had to have sex for me to even be here.
Posting my face turned out to be the worst thing I could have ever done,
For the opposite reasons of course.

Using more than all the road!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/12/2019 11:11 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Hell yes!
    Having people know that I am interested in the most common and natural
    activity we can share as human beings would be devastating.It's hard enough
    that people know that two people had to have sex for me to even be here.
    Posting my face turned out to be the worst thing I could have ever done,
    For the opposite reasons of course.
Good one... 😁 It's always a pleasure to meet someone with a sense of humor.. My parents never had sex... Go figure... My brother doesn't believe me.
Drop by any time.. 👍


rickdubs 46M
12 posts
2/13/2019 12:45 am

i mean isn't it a risk to anyone?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/13/2019 4:30 am

    Quoting rickdubs:
    i mean isn't it a risk to anyone?
Sure... I guess.. I think it's just as likely to have all your credit card info revealed in a hack on a 'purchase' site. I'd be more upset about that... They hacked Walmart a few years back. If they hack this site, they'll have my name and a dic pic or two. I don't care. 😊
Thanks for sharing your pov. Drop by any time... 👍


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
2/13/2019 4:04 pm

What is the big deal? I am adult on adult website, would prefer to keep it private but not a big deal.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/13/2019 7:55 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    What is the big deal? I am adult on adult website, would prefer to keep it private but not a big deal.
Yep.. I agree with you. 👍 I'd be more freaked out if my banking information was hacked... Which has happened... right.. Walmart and others...
Thanks for popping in.. You're looking good girl! 😘😊👍


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
2/15/2019 8:31 am

It helps that I'm retired.

Yeah, at this point it's just the book club, and I think some of them already have suspicions about me!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/15/2019 10:45 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    It helps that I'm retired.

    Yeah, at this point it's just the book club, and I think some of them already have suspicions about me!
That's funny and ironic. 😉
Don't you ever wish, that you could just share your secrets, your experiences and your wild dreams (or at least a tiny snippet of them), with one or two of your acquaintances. Ones who may have, in the past - disparaged, (unknowingly albeit), your lifestyle choices? ðŸ˜ą
Omg.. That would be so much fun. Or is that just me... being juvenile? 😁


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
2/15/2019 1:10 pm

Actually, I have a core group of close women friends who know about my blog here and also about the kink groups I'm involved with (although not a lot of the details). They're all in long term marriages, so I think when I first came on Sex Friends Finder.net they were entertained to hear my stories about meeting people here.

Both of my sisters also know I'm on here. They worry about it a little because they're old fashioned and think I'm going to meet an ax murderer or something. LOL. They don't know about the kink stuff. I don't need for them to worry THAT much.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/15/2019 4:03 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Actually, I have a core group of close women friends who know about my blog here and also about the kink groups I'm involved with (although not a lot of the details). They're all in long term marriages, so I think when I first came on Sex Friends Finder.net they were entertained to hear my stories about meeting people here.

    Both of my sisters also know I'm on here. They worry about it a little because they're old fashioned and think I'm going to meet an ax murderer or something. LOL. They don't know about the kink stuff. I don't need for them to worry THAT much.
That's interesting.... As an IT sales professional, my job rarely puts me at risk, and at this point in my career... I could care less. My daughters are intrigued, when I mention my hobbies, but I don't go into details. But seriously... I lost my inner monologue about 30 years ago... way before I should have m.. Lol 😁
Yep.. I understand where you're coming from... I love your exotic hobbies... I am really interested in that area of sensuality.. Hmmm. Anyway.. Thanks for sharing your pov... By the way.. My sense of humour, is tongue in cheek, so I hope you take it like that. Satire, sarcasm, are my topical forms of humor. I just don't want to accidentally offend you. If I offend you, at the very least... it should be on purpose.. ðŸĪ”😁😘


averageguy159 36M
36 posts
2/18/2019 11:27 pm

willing to show my cock put never my face


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/19/2019 7:57 am

Yep! I know exactly what you mean...
I'm an exhibitionist at heart... but I've buried my dic pics in private folders.... Supposedly women hate dic pics.. Then why do they keep perving me? 😁
Drop by any time... 👍


Whatisitgoing2b 63M
17 posts
3/1/2019 4:31 am

Probably more people on here that we know.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
3/1/2019 5:14 am

Probably true. We should have some sort of secret handshake to figure out who. I wonder... when I'm at work, who else is on this site... lol ðŸĪ”
Drop by any time... If you see me out in public, say hello.... 👋


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