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TB5758 65M/67F  
577 posts
1/21/2019 2:41 pm

According to that non-scholarly Wikipedia this is the definition. In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behavior, to contrast such behavior with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. So it could essentially mean different things to different people which supports your thought on the subject and I agree.


jwilk123 28M
3 posts
1/21/2019 2:59 pm

same


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
1/21/2019 3:02 pm

I believe that anything I like, is only Kinky the First Time!

As some one said "Erotic is using a Feather, Kinky is using the whole Chicken"


Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/21/2019 3:05 pm

    Quoting XHamburgDave:
    I believe that anything I like, is only Kinky the First Time!

    As some one said "Erotic is using a Feather, Kinky is using the whole Chicken"
That's funny.. 😱🐓🐑😰😵🎆🎈


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/21/2019 3:25 pm

Vanilla is a flavour, anyone can relate to.
Kink forses one to pause - regardless of how many times we've seen it on the net... and ask the question : Would everyone in my bible study class, admit, to doing that? 🤔
Then again.. Making love is a personal thing.
Sex.. and sharing your tastes, is kinky. Whatever you want to do.. Knock yourself out..
Kink, is just a term used to educate and titilate the bored curious. Kinky people don't advertise...
Are you bored? 🤔


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
1/21/2019 3:27 pm

for some... sexy with a feather is kinky.... for the next... its the whole chicken


Tabbit01 38M
1 post
1/21/2019 3:34 pm

i think that vanilla is up to anal. after that then maybe its kinky. but a lot of people think that taking it in the butt is kinky so its really up to you ideals. so when i ask people if there kinky i also say if you think anal is kinky thin your not kinky.


exploringcol2019 39M

1/21/2019 3:38 pm

Lovely post


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
1/21/2019 3:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi Wonder, from comparing your profile against mine, my Kinks are very similar to yours

Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/21/2019 4:05 pm

Kink is a state of mind..
Whatever trips you out.. Knock yourself out...


SolarPowered0 117M
8346 posts
1/21/2019 4:35 pm




I gave up kink a long time ago. You know that old adage: "Kink is as Kink does."

These days, I consider myself plenty kinky... just because I can wake up smilin' knowing I don't have to fend off my ex-wife wavin' a mayo-jar full of formaldehyde at me, with one hand...and sportin' a rather dull scalpel... in her other hand.

Ain't nothin' quite as kinky as havin' my nuts still hangin' between my legs.

Solar...



Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/21/2019 5:16 pm

What is kinky?.... Something you suspect will give you pleasure, but you have never done before. Once you've done whatever, then it's vanilla.

It seems to me that it varies depending on one's belief of what's out of the ordinary. .... Nothing to do with "Belief"... but everything to do with experience , or lack of experience. A blowjob from the sitter is kinky the first time...but after that..... no longer kinky.

Someone might think anal sex is kinky .... Only the first night in jail.... but not the next week.

And is anal sex even considered kinky?... In San Francisco? No.. To an unhappy housewife in Madison County? Yes.

I also know many people don't like labels, ... Oh fuck'em.... give them two vials ...no labels... tell them one is poison, the other is medicine..drink one.....watch how fast they like labels.

Once again, what's considered ordinary? ... Something you do over and over again. For instance, in one culture, many a female get married at 28..this is ordinary......in another culture many a female get married at 12....so this is ordinary.

I would say missionary sex would be ordinary..... Not at first. When the missionaries brought missionary sex to the Philippines , where they were mostly having sex doggy style.... looking at your lovers face while having sex, would be considered "Kinky".

People say, "vanilla," sex is considered ordinary. .... Just a matter of perspective and experience.

I've always felt to have good, "out of the ordinary," sex, one must first know or experience good basic sex. .... LOL...well bingo! That's why people cheat. For instance, a female gets married at 16, ....what would she know about "Good sex"? She married the first guy to put his finger in her hole... Then years later, while sitting around with some girlfriends she hears about these other experiences and their business in bed with their husbands/boyfriends..... now she goes out and gets some experience, maybe with one her girlfriends husbands/boyfriends. ...she learns "Good sex".

Or another example, a 14 yo male, gets a blowjob at school ,she opens her mouth she puts it in her mouth, blows on it... and tells him he had a blow job. he thinks that was good.... but later, he's 18, he gets a blowjob in college, she does a tongue swirl and lip seals for a suction. He's now had good blowjob.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/21/2019 6:41 pm

I would likely be a vanilla kind o guy, although I think it's more like French Vanilla.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/22/2019 10:45 am

I think everyone has different ideas about what kinky is usually something out of their comfort zone I am thinking.. I hope you have a great week my friend and I hope you feel better and get some rest..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/22/2019 3:30 pm

    Quoting  :

So, in your opinion, kink is a one time deal. Once you've tried it, it's no longer kinky?.... That's right. After awhile , what was considered kinky, is no longer kinky.... and the couple [or the individual] searches for something else .


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