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Pussycumwanker 53M

9/1/2018 3:20 pm

hotlist = wish list

Flirt = costs and means wanting to talk imho

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Papabear1960b 63M

9/1/2018 3:23 pm

I guess we can all use them how we like. For me a flirt is a hello, if someone visits my profile I'll normally flirt them as a thank you.

Hotlist I use exactly as it sound, to say I think they're hot or I feel we might have enough in common to dig deeper.


KlaiveZero 51M
14 posts
9/1/2018 3:30 pm

Flirting is gold members only .... hotlist is a way non gold members can use to let them know they are interested ,

ALSO if you are not gold and using a computer hovering over their pic in your hotlist lets you see more of their profile than normal ..... at least it did back before I was gold .


Bunnysyummy2 64F
11293 posts
9/1/2018 3:39 pm

I usually only return flirts to acknowledge the flirt I recieved
I see the hotlist feature as a way to "bookmark" a profile and the pictures/videos
Neither of which is an invitation for anything more unless I want it Rude? pehaps.. but it's honest


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bitchkitty2017 71F

9/1/2018 3:44 pm

    Quoting KlaiveZero:
    Flirting is gold members only .... hotlist is a way non gold members can use to let them know they are interested ,

    ALSO if you are not gold and using a computer hovering over their pic in your hotlist lets you see more of their profile than normal ..... at least it did back before I was gold .
flirting is gold members only?? Are you trying to say if a standard member flirts with me its not real?? lol I am gold and I don't flirt by choice but I get a ton of standard members flirting with me , the only way they can message and chat is if I friend them first ...flirting is not only for gold..lol


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
9/1/2018 3:47 pm

Very little difference, since they are almost exclusively sent by scammers pretending to be younger women while hanging out on IM, hoping for someone stupid enough to respond. You also get hotlisted if someone tags you as hot while playing the hot or not game.


benard69 66M/66F  

9/1/2018 4:05 pm

Neither adds up to a Hill of Beans...


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
9/1/2018 4:05 pm

I no longer do either even when I have gold. Still, I tend to see hotlisting as a way to mark a person whose pics etc you want to go see on a regular basis. A flirt is to let them know you are interested in them. Not worth much when you live far away. Better to send mail.

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JustlomesumMe 69M
679 posts
9/1/2018 4:06 pm

I don't use or pay attention to. 95% of them are from women 20-35 years old. Why would I want a woman less than half my age.

Wish they had a delete button on the viewed you section as most of them are 20 and 30 years old too.

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Attentive14Fun 50M

9/1/2018 4:24 pm

    Quoting  :

If you are getting charged points to hotlist someone you need to look into that. Hotlisting someone is a free feature. Flirting with someone is a gold member status feature.


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
9/1/2018 6:51 pm

Most of the flirts I get are from 20 something standard females looking for a LTR. Sounds legit I don't bother with the flirt. I have hotlisted a few which makes I easy to pop on their profile to perv pics and videos. Other then that they mean nothing. I don't even pay attention to the who viewed me, most of that is when some ones curser happened to go across my profile pic. Little things the site uses to make you think you're special.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
9/1/2018 8:19 pm

Standards CAN flirt for a price, can pay per flirt. Hotlist can be used by anyone to show interest however. But frankly, it seems most women dont pay any attention to hotlisting.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
9/2/2018 6:53 am

I don't really know, and reading the responses here didn't help much. I think it is key to understand that certain nonpaying female members get a LOT more privileges than their male counterparts. In part, this is based on profile views they've generated, and is just one aspect of how this site uses you female members.

I don't use the flirt feature. If I'm interested in someone I get off my ass and email them!

I use the hotlist feature to bookmark a profile, but not because I'm interested in meeting them, but for some other reason. For example, I recently spotted the profile for a local lady what was clearly a pro on here, and am curious how long till she gets booted off.

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red_guy_oh 49M  
183 posts
9/10/2018 11:20 am

For me:
Hotlisting is mostly for myself. It is someone I want to refer back to at a future date.

Flirting is something I usually only do to someone I have already chatted with and in that case it is basically just like saying hi.


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