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Pale_Guy 30M
7 posts
12/3/2018 12:43 am

Alright, so to preface this question I have a short story to tell. I was recently talking to a couple on here- things were going good and we were talking about meeting up for a short meet and greet before possibly moving on to more than that.

If things had gone well then this would have been my first time taking part in a threesome, so as I am sure you can imagine, I was pretty excited. However, that is when things turned somewhat sour. You see, they wanted to trade before meeting but I wasn't comfortable doing that. I never give out my phone number until after I meet someone in person and confirm that they are who they say they are. My reasoning being that a phone number is far too easy to abuse.

And so I offered to instead talk over various free chat apps which are much safer to use before meeting. They didn't budge though, so that ended there. This whole experience made me curious about when other people here prefer to exchange numbers and whatnot.


So, with my little story out of the way- when do you prefer to exchange with people you meet here?
Any time, I'll freely give out my number if asked.
Once we have talked a bit and feel like I have gotten a feel of the other person.
After meeting and getting to know each other in person.
Never, my number is private and is going to stay that way.
Other. (Feel free to explain in the comments.)


Pale_Guy 30M
66 posts
12/3/2018 12:44 am

Been a while since I have posted a blog post, do you still need to add a comment to get it to show up properly?


Pale_Guy 30M
66 posts
12/3/2018 5:42 pm

    Quoting  :

A phone number can be VERY easily abused. Just because you block someone doesn't mean that they can't call from another number, or give your number to trolls on the internet, or even use your number to sign up for various telemarketing schemes or spam numbers and whatnot. It really isn't hard to make someone's life hell with no more info than a phone number. And there are plenty of people out there who are petty enough to do just that. With all that in mind it is just much easier and more secure to chat using an app instead. Since it usually takes no longer than a few minutes to make a new profile on those such things if you really need to.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
12/4/2018 7:28 pm

Not right off the bat !!!

Take the time to try and get to know someone, get a feel of where they're coming from.

It's usually the scammers want to exchange numbers on the first message,

Best bet---have a throw-away phone to use on site's such as this.


TravelingMan524 71M
241 posts
12/4/2018 7:57 pm

I am a cheater and my wife uses my phone some so the answer for me is never.


deepdang 39M
36 posts
12/6/2018 11:54 am

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