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donsv1962 61M

8/22/2020 8:44 am

There are so many restrictions for us Standard members that it is not funny. Have a super Saturday my friend.

I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/22/2020 8:47 am

After all this time I am still thinking of going gold. I like this site. But as you mentioned there are a lot of glitches that Gold members are talking about. I can only see emails sent to me if someone is a fan of mine.


meetmeonthetrail 67M

8/22/2020 9:33 am

I am a standard Member and Sex Friends Finder.net does not let Us do hardly anything without the UP Grade message coming up..to Me this site is not worth $240.00 a year as that is what they want..I can't even view Your profile even thou We are Friends..and one other thing...You are Absolutely Gorgeous..


able202 63M
3108 posts
8/22/2020 9:45 am

I am standard and can read and reply to gold and top fan messages.

Able202


cheezie212 53M
98 posts
8/22/2020 9:52 am

Never been a paying member, but been on Sex Friends Finder.net for longer than I can admit too...lol. Over the years, there has been less and less standard members can do, see, or participate in. Is it right? Not sure, I understand their business model, but in the same regards there are numerous glitches and problems with the whole site, and they do not care to improve, or fix it. When they do seem to fix something, we, as standard members lose something.


ThatOtherMan3 59M

8/22/2020 9:56 am

Hello beautiful,

Of all the golds who have messaged me yours--thankfully--are the only ones I can read. Also. as friends, still can't view photos in many cases.

You're a gem in this otherwise totally glitchy site. Sorry I've been so quite lately, had a crappy couple of weeks.

xo


scott0250 57M
511 posts
8/22/2020 10:08 am

Hi Joy. I have been on and off this site for the past 15 years. I used to be a paying member but am now only a standard member. The site does not allow a standard member to do anything unless you have the points to use to do those things. No points, no chat, no watching vidoes, no responding to messages, no nothing. I would not give this site a wooden nickel now a days for the shitty service that they provide. This site was a whole lot better 10 years ago but not now.


AzRedhead1 66M/65F
9 posts
8/22/2020 10:15 am

It's gotten ridiculous, I've been halfway thru a chat using my points and been cut by Sex Friends Finder.net, and when I try to reconnect they take the points and cut me off as soon as I answer back. I tried the Gold when we 1st got on here, and it still didn't work that great, not worth the $ for glitches. tried to contact Sex Friends Finder.net and got zip. We have met some Fantastic People on here, and wish to continue but they sure are making it harder and harder.

That's my take on it, and the end of my bitching. We're a;; kind of trapped at home with all the versions of Quarantine, and being in contact with like minded adults is a very important part of Sanity. why make it so hard?

Red


Xxletshavealookx 63M
1 post
8/22/2020 10:45 am

There are to many restictions on Sex Friends Finder.net for standard mrmbers i will never be bullied into paying for this site just keep wrinting erotic stories for points


Starsearch1965 58M
2263 posts
8/22/2020 11:08 am

I’ve been able to message a few gold members that’s been it unless I use points and most of the time it’s wasted points. Not a very good way to try to get you to join. U keep up the good blog please


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
8/22/2020 11:25 am

Hi Joy I can read and respond to top fan messages but that's about all, often if using IM or watching a cam you get cut off and lose the points, I wouldn't to pay for that sort of service, I keep saying it but if they only charged 10 bucks a month they would probably get more custom.


Solfan55 69M
500 posts
8/22/2020 11:39 am

What's the point(s)? As it turns out points are everything when it comes to being a standard member on Sex Friends Finder.net. I don't think the average standard member is aware that there are a lot of people like you that they can connect with through blogs. There's not enough value delivered for the Gold Membership fee in my opinion.

Oh well, as "they" say, all good things come to an end. You'll always be a Joy to behold!


hotfyrman 66M  
63 posts
8/22/2020 11:41 am

Yes there are to many restrictions. I remember there was a time when standards could read email, look at vids etc. but that has gone by the wayside. We used to be able to converse with golds when the golds contacted us, but now I get a msg that I can chat for 15 pts (even when the gold initiated) just does not make sense.

Firefighter's Find them hot and leave them Wet!


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
8/22/2020 11:42 am

I I got gold for free last year and it ran out in June of this year so I signed up and bought a gold for a year but as far as I could see not a lot has really been to my advantage with that membership .

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


justintosex 61M
418 posts
8/22/2020 12:12 pm

Well I have not been on for over a week here,as told by site support if I was to put a photo up here I would gain a bit. Also was sent a message from an ambassador, and was unable to view. If peeps have a private mailbox I will respond in that manner. I remember when I started on here it was a gold membership $9.99 a month for 1 year with a bonus 6 months if you started a blog and responded to blogs. Just my take on it, have a great weekend.


onehotintegra 63M
543 posts
8/22/2020 1:22 pm

This sight has taken away the fun for standard members. I even chat with anyone you need points. Ohh>>! you csn purchase them. >>!


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
8/22/2020 1:35 pm

When I first joined this site, several years ago, there was a SILVER option, and I was a paying member then. A few months after I became a SILVER member, Sex Friends Finder.net began taking away features, one after another, and kept pushing GOLD membership. After a while, the SILVER option was completely removed, leaving only GOLD membership. So, I no longer was a paying member. I will continue as a standard member until this site shuts down.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
8/22/2020 2:42 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with this PSA for glitches with this site

So many women are attracted to my silhouette

it seems that it drives them crazy, so I've not even thought of becoming Gold or Platinum or Diamond or whatever

I'm just an easy going man looking for that diamond in the rough

I've come across a few, but, this site provides an interesting diversion and reward for meeting interesting women from across the world

maybe, if it were the cat's meow or Bullwinkle's antlers and the service were stellar, more would shell out the big bucks

but, I'm just hanging out until my lover that can keep me pops up, the one that sees the man in the man, the hot sexy lover from god's country, one who likes his women hot, but not 2 spicy

If she wants me bad enough, she will find a way

and, that's all I've got to say about that!!!

hmm

be safe

The Beatles - "I Want You (She's So Heavy)"

I want you
I want you so bad, babe
I want you
I want you so bad
It's driving me mad
It's driving me mad

She's so
Heavy
Heavy, heavy, heavy, heavy

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
8/22/2020 3:29 pm

I have not had any problem with you Lov in past I did with other members. I find it sucks more when a member close their account then come back on it cost me more points to reconnect with them. Yes Sex Friends Finder.net has taken a lot away as time goes on but I just got broadcasting back for now.


so_fthnds 44M

8/22/2020 7:05 pm

I have not tried for a while.. for that, I apologize..even when handed pts from wonderful caring gold members I have a feeling most of my messages have not been seen from members.


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
8/22/2020 8:53 pm

Access to reading emails disappear even if we become top fans.

C'est la vie on Sex Friends Finder.net


Dark_Star1972 51M
743 posts
8/23/2020 12:27 am

I really only use the blogs to communicate with people and that is more conversational than anything else. I came to realize early that Sex Friends Finder.net doesn't care a bit for Standard members and that the bells and whistles will never work for me or other Standards.

And, you're right, the site is way to glitchy to pay for anything. Hell, the messaging system is a mess and has been for years. I tried using the IM once but it didn't work for me.

Only the blogs are really of interest to me. Well, the blogs and the hottest photos section, but even that is limited for Standards. I cannot even post comments on photos anymore.

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
_______________________________


wanttolickyou225 62M
423 posts
8/23/2020 3:53 am

They take more and more away from us all of the time Joy. The im rarely works, but they still take our points away for using it. It is getting tiresome.....soon time to say goodbye to this site.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/23/2020 6:12 am

It has become a joke. Even years ago when I was silver for a few months, I had no luck. The number of fakes, window peepers and people looking for ego strokes are even higher now! I do remember a time when a gold member sent you email you could respond. Now I get a letter a month that I can not read any more. Of course as they have taken things away, they NEVER tell standard or gold members. It also seems like trying to pee in a wind storm. attempting to get people to reach out to you via your blog in a private section. I do like some features on here, but I am meeting people that have left over the last few years due to the changes that create barriers to meeting. So the whole tag line about meet someone, blah blah blah is just false.


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
8/23/2020 8:21 am

That thing with the private messaging, despite being friends, or top fans or anything, is the case for the last 3 years here my lady

One of the main reasons I have given up mainly on the site and sporadically follow the blogs - thank God for the private mailboxes
Although a cpl o'times I've had a message denied for containing information of contact

What can I say ?
The place keeps on giving !

At least we get to see your pics

Cheers - P


Dark_Star1972 51M
743 posts
8/23/2020 2:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah, I just found that out a couple of weeks ago. I'd only been back on here for a few days and tried to comment on a really hot photo and it gave me the you have a Gold Membership page to comment.

I was pissed!

But I was not surprised A'FF had done that to the Standard members.

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
_______________________________


Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
8/24/2020 6:58 am

Messages ... on here ??? hahahaha that's a joke.
I can't even answer your question about in the past week.
Since I came back even the bots quit messaging my ass.
I got one message since being on here again .. woohoo (sarcastic)
This site is a waste of time, it's why I don't come here often or comment much


𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/24/2020 1:00 pm

The fun has gone out of this place and I can't see it coming back any time soon.
They take a lot but very rarely give anything back.


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