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Weigh In On My Dilemma A Poem  

yesmamallthetime 56F  
4464 posts
4/23/2019 2:07 pm
Weigh In On My Dilemma A Poem


I had hoped you would reach out.
You did send your condolences
When I posted about a loss
But then nothing more
I don't want to be the one
To make the first move
I was the one who was hurt
By your words.
I guess you have taken
My silence to be
Of little concern.

Now I have a question
To whomever wants to weigh in
Should I just go about
Like I was busy with something
my silence was not based
On something he did?

I should not expect
Him to be a mind reader
But I a woman
With feelings can
Get the better of
When I feel an insult
When I feel it an injury.

And since I know I not a saint
I know I can be wrong
And make mistakes
I would like to enlist
Anyone
To weigh in
On my dilemma
And tell what they think.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/23/2019 2:08 pm

I am uncertain of how I should proceed...

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/23/2019 3:19 pm

I think it depends on what your feeling if you want to reach out, and if you don't then don't hun. He hurt you so in my opinion he should be the one reaching out to you. I hope your day is a good one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
4/23/2019 3:46 pm

he's probably got things on his mind and stuff going thru his life. or he just doesn't give a shit.
what do I know. ask him.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
4/23/2019 6:18 pm

life is too short... too precious...

go for it...

be the one...

it might be gone...

don't look back...

hmm...

Does he move you... does he shake you like the bough of a willow tree...

if he does that... go... go... go... run like the wind...

Hozier - "Movement"

I still watch you when you're groovin'
As if through water from the bottom of a pool
You're movin' without movin'
And when you move, I'm moved
You are a call to motion
There, all of you a verb in perfect view
Like Jonah on the ocean
When you move, I'm moved
When you move
I'm put to mind of all that I wanna be
When you move
I could never define all that you are to me
So move me, baby
Shake like the bough of a willow tree
You do it naturally
Move me, baby
You are the rite of movement
Its reasonin' made lucid and cool
I know it's no improvement
When you move, I move
You're less Polunin leapin'
Or Fred Astaire in sequins
Honey, you, you're Atlas in his sleepin'
And when you move, I'm moved...

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
4/25/2019 11:50 am

Certain words cause so much pain.
You wish he would reach out to you.
But saying nothing is just the same.
You need answers, or at least a clue.


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/26/2019 4:53 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I think it depends on what your feeling if you want to reach out, and if you don't then don't hun. He hurt you so in my opinion he should be the one reaching out to you. I hope your day is a good one..
Thank you for your comment Tmptrzz. I appreciate your advice.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/26/2019 4:56 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you for your comment Jack. Receiving a comment from you somehow makes me smile. You seem to have that ability just with your thoughtfulness.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/26/2019 5:06 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    he's probably got things on his mind and stuff going thru his life. or he just doesn't give a shit.
    what do I know. ask him.
Paul, you actually made me do just that...I asked him after he sent me a few messages that I finally saw when I looked at them. I basically had his profile hidden on social media and only wanted to see it when I was ready. LOL So I said I don't know what to say to you anymore after the email he had sent that was kind of derogatory. He apologized and said he had not meant that and was sorry he had hurt my feelings. So our misunderstanding was cleared up. But I needed time to deal with what I considered a slight. In the past I might have said something I would regret if I had responded right away. Do you know what I mean?

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/26/2019 5:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you for reading and commenting. He did not see my poem but he did contact me. He apologized for what he wrote which was not the best choice of words on his part.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/26/2019 5:45 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    life is too short... too precious...

    go for it...

    be the one...

    it might be gone...

    don't look back...

    hmm...

    Does he move you... does he shake you like the bough of a willow tree...

    if he does that... go... go... go... run like the wind...

    Hozier - "Movement"

    I still watch you when you're groovin'
    As if through water from the bottom of a pool
    You're movin' without movin'
    And when you move, I'm moved
    You are a call to motion
    There, all of you a verb in perfect view
    Like Jonah on the ocean
    When you move, I'm moved
    When you move
    I'm put to mind of all that I wanna be
    When you move
    I could never define all that you are to me
    So move me, baby
    Shake like the bough of a willow tree
    You do it naturally
    Move me, baby
    You are the rite of movement
    Its reasonin' made lucid and cool
    I know it's no improvement
    When you move, I move
    You're less Polunin leapin'
    Or Fred Astaire in sequins
    Honey, you, you're Atlas in his sleepin'
    And when you move, I'm moved...
Funny you should mention Willow trees...they are kind of my favorite with their swaying branches and hanging leaves. Thank you for your comment.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
4/26/2019 8:55 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Certain words cause so much pain.
    You wish he would reach out to you.
    But saying nothing is just the same.
    You need answers, or at least a clue.
Thank you my friend for your thoughtful comment. I did get some answers.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


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