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Age differences  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
1/17/2019 12:42 pm
Age differences


The Oxford Learners dictionary tells me that a cougar is defined as “an older woman who seeks a sexual relationship with a much younger man” So now of course I find myself wondering at what point does and age difference become “much younger”? 10 years? 20? Somewhere in between? More? And what is older?

So yes in my attempts to browse profiles and get back in to this site I’ve been noticing I’m being drawn to many profiles of younger men… and those young life guards at the pool are awfully nice to look at. I don't think I'm quite in cougar territory yet... but I'm not ruling it out for the future.

angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
1/17/2019 12:53 pm

I know i know I should stop trying to define these things...


Longmikesocal 33M

1/17/2019 1:15 pm

id say 15 years


bitchkitty2017 71F

1/17/2019 1:19 pm

I freaking hate the labels today society lays on anybody who shows a difference or preference outside of the narrow minded standards people think it needs to be..I prefer above 40 and do not go much over 55 unless friendly negotiations dictate and its also up to location obviously...I also think it does depend on maturity and the only way that is determined is by meeting someone..gut instincts will dictate that as well...


ronan4fun 55M

1/17/2019 1:27 pm

personally I say that there is no reason to label things. woman meets man if they get along and can have conversation then why ruin it by adding a label?


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
1/17/2019 1:29 pm

I think for normal mature adults, 10 years either side of our own is normal. I think something along the lines of a geratioal difference ie 25yrs, is beyond the norm for contemporary ideals and tastes. So in your case once you hit 45 and hit on guys of 20, I think that would be viewed by many as cougar activity


OlderManForHorny 83M

1/17/2019 1:39 pm

I have no idea


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
1/17/2019 1:53 pm

to hell with labels... if they are of legal age... and you find them HOT... go for it


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
1/17/2019 1:54 pm

I think it matters in a relationship more than in a casual setting, simply because you must have stronger linkage to sustain a relationship, but to have a hard and fast rule is daft.

I was always amazed how many gorgeous young women fell in love with rich, much older men when I used to work in Monaco, but hey, love is blind...


Freeonereturns 63F

1/17/2019 2:25 pm

A cougar is a woman in her 60’s I believe. You’re in the sweet MILF spot, enjoy it while you can. For myself within ten years give or take has worked well.


Letshavefunsfl1 40M

1/17/2019 2:42 pm

Age doesn’t matter as long as there is attraction!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/17/2019 4:11 pm

"Defining things/situations/sexual feelings/odd ball characters" ..seems to be an on-going human trait, that I think, we tend to overdo.

The Oxford Learners dictionary tells me that a cougar is defined as “an older woman who seeks a sexual relationship with a much younger man” ... Yes, that's the polite way of stating it, but in normal speak, a cougar is a woman , 33 to 40 years of age, who likes to have sex with younger males.

So now of course I find myself wondering at what point does and age difference become “much younger”? .... Well, based on the given information, 33 to 40 years of age, a "Much younger" male she would play with would be younger than 33.

The age parameters, I found in an article of the "Stranger" Newspaper, published in Seattle, long ago. I just happened to copy the information.

This is what the article said:

A woman is 20 to 32 years, she's considered to be a Puma . So "Younger males" would be younger than 20.

A woman is 33 to 40 years, she's considered to be a Cougar."Younger males" for her, would apparently be younger than 33.

A woman is 41 to 48, she's considered to be a Bobcat.. "Younger males", for her would be younger than 41.

A woman is 49 to 60, she's considered to be a Wildebeest . "Younger males" , for her would be younger than 49.

A woman is over 60, and still sexually active seeking playful sex with younger men, she's a Saber-tooth. For her, "Younger males" would younger than 60.

But society doesn't get that descriptive, and mostly stays with the concept of Cougar. So ......

[much younger? ] 10 years? 20? Somewhere in between? More?...Apparently he doesn't have to be "Much younger", just a year younger , or more, would qualify her to be a "Meat eater" [a Cougar, or if you prefer...and the other descriptions].

I don't think I'm quite in cougar territory yet.. ... According to published descriptions, you have one more year to be referred to as a "Cougar" officially. Then you become a Bobcat.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/17/2019 6:53 pm

I never thought it was about age
but more like........

The raspy cigarette smokers voice.
Drive a 1964 Ford Thunderbird convertible and
have a favorite barstool at your local tavern
Everyone says hey Helen!And make those guy kind of comments
like 'HEY HOT STUFF"or
"Mama needs to give someone a spanking "
to the guys at the pool table?

Using more than all the road!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
1/17/2019 8:07 pm

Trust me, you will always be drawn to the younger men.


angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
1/18/2019 9:28 am

Lol well by that definition I apparently was a cougar some 7 years ago already. I will admit it is the memory of that particular guy and his... ahem... "energy" that has me leaning back towards the younger guys.


Dark_Star1972 51M
743 posts
5/22/2019 12:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Yep, I've heard that as well, although I read the number to add to half your age was 7 (but personally I think it should be at least 9). Of course, everyone's opinion is different.

Regardless, at this point in my life, having a relationship with anyone under the age of 30 would be problematic. Sometimes that difference in age has to do with not just chemistry but compatibility.

Of course, that's a relationship. For a purely sexual encounter, as long as both people (or more) are adults and consent and are safe, grind and moan until your eyes pop out.

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
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