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Great Sex -When Is The Right Time?  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10139 posts
2/8/2019 8:47 am
Great Sex -When Is The Right Time?


If you feel like you and your partner have fallen into a rut with your sex life, your timing might be to blame. The most popular time for love-making also happens to be the worst time .

A study in ‘Frontiers in Psychology’ shows that the timing of men’s and women’s libidos are at polar opposites: Women feel the most desire in the evening, while men are most aroused in the morning. The study found that the average MF couple is most likely to have sex between 9 p.m. and midnight—in other words, bedtime. But experts say that pre-sleep sex isn’t necessarily ideal for a of reasons:
-Most people are exhausted and there’s a good chance they won’t have the energy for the most mind-blowing encounter.
-Night time sex can also over stimulate you.
- For others, sex is a tension reducer and relaxer and they have sex to help them fall asleep.

If you actually sleep together afterward, while you’re resting, your body is building up hormones, and you’ll wake up with more energy and perhaps creativity for satisfying sex.

Morning sex might not be ideal for couples with early or mismatched schedules, so get creative with your timing. Perhaps a mid-afternoon romp?

So – what timing works for you? Has it ever been an issue that you weren’t ‘in sync’ with your partner?





sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 8:49 am

For me, timing has never been an issue


Freeonereturns 63F

2/8/2019 9:03 am

Nighttime is still what’s best with me. The day is done and little odds to be bothered so concentration can be focus upon the act itself. But a little something something is a nice wat to start a day too. It’s just normally a bit more reserved then at night.


loveglove2019 58M

2/8/2019 9:13 am

i must admit that i am rather an average man, sex in the morning is what makes me hornier... but very frankly, timing is quite secondary when it comes to that. morning, afternoon, evening, night...


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/8/2019 10:22 am

I have always been an all day any time of day works well for me. If I did have a preference though I would say I am more of a night time person. This is some great information you shared, and I hope you have a great start to your weekend today..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/8/2019 11:28 am

I kinda go when the thought pops up...👆🐓
But now that you mention it.... I'll still be motivated by the 'moment' , and not the time... 😊😘⌚


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:17 pm

    Quoting Freeonereturns:
    Nighttime is still what’s best with me. The day is done and little odds to be bothered so concentration can be focus upon the act itself. But a little something something is a nice wat to start a day too. It’s just normally a bit more reserved then at night.
Night time is definitely the popular choice for women


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:18 pm

    Quoting loveglove2019:
    i must admit that i am rather an average man, sex in the morning is what makes me hornier... but very frankly, timing is quite secondary when it comes to that. morning, afternoon, evening, night...
Yes being 'in the mood' can be timeless


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:19 pm

    Quoting  :

You align with what the article said.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:20 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I have always been an all day any time of day works well for me. If I did have a preference though I would say I am more of a night time person. This is some great information you shared, and I hope you have a great start to your weekend today..
You know me...I love to inform people that stop by to read what I post


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:21 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    I saw that Psychology Today article, or at least one like it, too.

    So women are ready to go in the PM... but she needs to be relaxed to have a better chance at having an orgasm.

    While men are ready to go in the AM... and has sex in the PM to relax.....and go to sleep.

    Looks like women , who have a man with her, better figure out a good time in the evening to pleasure herself and her man [that's not too late for him]..

    And in the morning , when her man is up and ready to dive in.... she should just relax and see what happens.
It was an interesting and informative article.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:22 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    what timing works for you? ... Not a matter of "Timing".. more so a matter of how sexually attractive the woman happens to be.
Makes sense


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 1:24 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I kinda go when the thought pops up...👆🐓
    But now that you mention it.... I'll still be motivated by the 'moment' , and not the time... 😊😘⌚
I think a lot of people feel the same way. Not constrained by a certain time of day or night.


marriedcretin 53M
1324 posts
2/8/2019 2:55 pm

Er...what is this "sex" of what you speak?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 2:59 pm

Lol. You are funny. Just pretend then.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 5:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes. Sexy can be great regardless of the place and time.
Nice to hear I have inspired you to explore this in your own blog. Perhaps you will let me know when it’s posted.


mc_justmc 63M

2/8/2019 7:49 pm

I've always been an evening sex kind of guy.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/8/2019 9:16 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've always been an evening sex kind of guy.
Really? Had a feeling you wouldn’t be ‘average’.


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
2/9/2019 7:23 am

I need a partner first but rosy says anytime of the day is a good time.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/9/2019 8:31 am

    Quoting MrRareity:
    I need a partner first but rosy says anytime of the day is a good time.
No doubt...many agree with you.


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
2/9/2019 11:26 am

If i read this article on my own, i might have screamed, GET OUT OF MY MIND!!

After any kind of recharging nap or sleep... watch out.

There is a pic of me waking up from a nap somewhere


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/9/2019 12:08 pm

    Quoting CynicusMaximus:
    If i read this article on my own, i might have screamed, GET OUT OF MY MIND!!

    After any kind of recharging nap or sleep... watch out.

    There is a pic of me waking up from a nap somewhere
Are you going to keep it hidden or share it?
I think 🤔 we all can relate to the benefits 😊 of getting ‘recharged’.


boobsman07 51M

2/10/2019 7:09 pm

any time works for me with right woman


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/10/2019 9:20 pm

    Quoting boobsman07:
    any time works for me with right woman
Many feel the same as you 😊


Urban_Dave 56M
3 posts
2/11/2019 12:24 pm

Traditionally we tend to be a to bed and sex culture. Go to bed have sex. I guess it is true the women hold the power.
However, when I think about it some of my fondest memories are morning sex adventures.
The arch enemy to morning sex is morning breath and a woman's vanity. I think if we all had mouth wash next to the bed "morning sex" would be more widely accepted.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/11/2019 1:48 pm

    Quoting Urban_Dave:
    Traditionally we tend to be a to bed and sex culture. Go to bed have sex. I guess it is true the women hold the power.
    However, when I think about it some of my fondest memories are morning sex adventures.
    The arch enemy to morning sex is morning breath and a woman's vanity. I think if we all had mouth wash next to the bed "morning sex" would be more widely accepted.
‘Be prepared’ is an effective motto for more than just the scouts 😊


olddex 67M

2/12/2019 9:40 am

On a nice snowy day like today, when staying in bed cuddling seems like the best thing to do.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/12/2019 9:56 am

    Quoting olddex:
    On a nice snowy day like today, when staying in bed cuddling seems like the best thing to do.
Yes. It’s a great way to take your mind off of the big ‘clean-up’ you face later.


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