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Getting What She Wanted  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10139 posts
1/22/2019 7:01 pm
Getting What She Wanted

The fist thing he did when he came in the house was to check the locks on the doors and windows. She watched him curiously, without asking any questions.

When he was satisfied everything was secure, he returned to the living room and found her sitting cross-legged on the floor, with a half-glass of white wine on the carpet beside her. He didn't recognize the music playing but it had a new-age serenity. The overhead lights were dimmed and she had lit a fire in the wood fireplace where the logs crackled and smoked.

He sat down beside her. The heat between them was unmistakable.

She sipped her wine but her gaze never left him. The firelight made her green eyes twinkle. She removed her glasses and put them aside. There was no mistaking the intent of her movements. She'd already admitted that she wanted him. He wanted her too but not in the same way. Tonight, with his brain fogged by alcohol he didn't care. And if she was honest, she didn't either.

"I didn't even know that the fireplace worked," he said stalling.

"You have never lit one? There was wood in the garage," she said.

"By the way, I also checked out the bed in the master bedroom. It's very soft and rather enormous."

They didn't to say anything else. He took a long, slow look down her body; from the smoothness of her make-up free face to the grey, silk blouse with two buttons undone, to the tight, black, denim jeans that hugged her curves.

She patiently waited for him to start. She knew that he would be the first to move.

As he slid a hand behind her neck, pulling her to him, she leaned into the kiss. Her lips were, soft, warm and wet. Her fingers worked gracefully on each button of his shirt.

He laid her back on the carpet and slid his body on top of hers, propping himself up on his forearms. They kissed again, and struggled piece by piece to get out of their clothes.

As her blouse opened, he parted the silken material and saw the scar just above her lacy bra.

She watched his eyes go to it and said, "Touch it. Please."

His thumb carefully caressed the smooth gash.

"Kiss it. You won't hurt me."

He leaned down, his warm mouth and soft tongue found it.

"Oh my God," she murmured.

Then they weren't tender anymore. They were rough with each other as it they both had something to prove. They never made it upstairs to the huge, soft bed. They stayed in front of the hot fire until every inch of their skin was damp with sweat and passion.

Sometime in the middle of the night, he woke up alone. The fire had died out and wind was blowing down from the chimney. He stood up and saw their clothes strewn everywhere. He found his boxer-briefs and tugged them on.

He crept upstairs and paused at the door to the master bedroom. He could see her stretched out on top of the comforter, lying on her side, her auburn curls fanned around her face. He stared at her and thought of their earlier lovemaking. The expressions on her face, the warmth of her fingers, the softness of her lips, the strength of her legs wrapped around him.

He turned away to let her sleep, but he heard her throaty whisper, "Don't leave. I am awake."

He came and sat down beside her. She rolled onto her back and opened her eyes to watch him looking at her. They stared at each other in the darkness a long time before either of them spoke.

Finally, she said, "I guess I got what I wanted."

"Why was that so important?" he asked her.

She sat up in bed, slid behind him, her bare legs on either side of his hips, her fingers massaging the muscles of his neck.

" I am selfish and curious. I needed to know what it was like to be with you."

"And what did you discover?"

"I have been with enough men to know when someone isn't fulfilled by being with me. No need to apologize. If you were using me simply because I was here, that's OK. I was using you too."

"Then I guess we both got what we wanted, didn't we?"

He was angry with her and with himself because she was right.

She looked into his eyes and smiled that knowing smile of hers, as if she could see right through him.

'You want to do it again, don't you?" she said, pulling him closer, kissing his neck.

She was right about that too.




sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 7:22 pm

Was she right to go after what she wanted?
Have you ever been in a similar situation?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 7:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Were you answering the first question or both?


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/22/2019 7:56 pm

Indubitably . I am really curious as to what would make
you think otherwise. Granted there wasn't anything said about the cramp and encoitled frenzy that ensued.

I think guys are more hung up on women doing exactly what some guys (not all) tend to do all the time but in all reality they better get used to it !

Using more than all the road!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 7:57 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Was she right to go after what she wanted? ..... That's what confident men and confident women do....they go after what they want. The fearful shy away from this, ....their loss.

    Have you ever been in a similar situation?... ....Of course. But I've never experienced a feeling of being mad , because of it.

    A man being mad about , "Being used for sex", doesn't register. Women? ... Yes, women get upset about being used for sex all the time, because her vagina is her leverage to get what she wants.

    Men would be mad when he finds out a woman uses his money to get what she wants. Not sex with him.
Yes you agree that it takes confidence to go after and get what you want.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 7:59 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Indubitably . I am really curious as to what would make
    you think otherwise. Granted there wasn't anything said about the cramp and encoitled frenzy that ensued.

    I think guys are more hung up on women doing exactly what some guys (not all) tend to do all the time but in all reality they better get used to it !
I wasn’t expressing my personal opinion. I was interested in other people’s perspective on the situation.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
1/22/2019 8:07 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Was she right to go after what she wanted?
    Have you ever been in a similar situation?
Hi sexyldy1000.

yes, yes, yes...

what you want or what you need...

The Weeknd - "What You Need"

I just wanna take you there
He don't got to go away
Does he touch you here like this?
Let me take the friction from your lips
And I'ma love you girl
The way you need
Ain't no one goin' stop us
Ain't no one goin' stop us
And I'ma give you girl, what you fiend
I'm the drug in your veins
Just fight through the pain
He's what you want
He's what you want
He's what you want
He's what you want
I'm what you need, what you need, what you need, what you need
I'm what you need, what you need, what you need what you need...

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Urban_Dave 56M
3 posts
1/22/2019 8:25 pm

What a wonderful story and an even better question!
People in general should pursue what they want. I respect a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. There are too many games and not enough time.
Don't get me wrong people should not take without asking or exploit.
I believe in passion and excitement. Sharing ideas and contemplating life's issues.
Have I experienced something similar? Yes I have.
At first I was taken back. Then after I thought about I smiled. To walk a mile in someone's shoes.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 8:30 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi sexyldy1000.

    yes, yes, yes...

    what you want or what you need...

    The Weeknd - "What You Need"

    I just wanna take you there
    He don't got to go away
    Does he touch you here like this?
    Let me take the friction from your lips
    And I'ma love you girl
    The way you need
    Ain't no one goin' stop us
    Ain't no one goin' stop us
    And I'ma give you girl, what you fiend
    I'm the drug in your veins
    Just fight through the pain
    He's what you want
    He's what you want
    He's what you want
    He's what you want
    I'm what you need, what you need, what you need, what you need
    I'm what you need, what you need, what you need what you need...
Thanks 🙏 Easy. You know I enjoy the Weeknd’s music and you came up with a great choice.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 8:36 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Yes.. a man needs confidence to go after what he wants. A woman will not come along and give a wimpy man what he needs or wants.

    But a woman doesn't need confidence if she is attractive, because a man will come along and give her what she wants/needs....

    But if a woman is confident....then she doesn't have to wait for a man....
Confidence and attractiveness are not mutually exclusive.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 8:39 pm

    Quoting Urban_Dave:
    What a wonderful story and an even better question!
    People in general should pursue what they want. I respect a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. There are too many games and not enough time.
    Don't get me wrong people should not take without asking or exploit.
    I believe in passion and excitement. Sharing ideas and contemplating life's issues.
    Have I experienced something similar? Yes I have.
    At first I was taken back. Then after I thought about I smiled. To walk a mile in someone's shoes.
I agree that pursuing what one wants is not gender specific.
Thanks 🙏 for stopping by and offering your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 8:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes, sometimes the toughest step is the first one you take. But as you said, you will never get what you want if you don’t try.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/22/2019 9:01 pm

Why the f.. k is he checking the doors and windows as soon as he walks in? Wtf is his problem?
He sounds paranoid. I would use him (if that's what you want to do), and say goodbye to him.
He sounds messed up.. Why is he getting angry?
Why is he drinking so much? So many q's about this guy. Just saying, but he creeps me out.
Sounds like he's a head case.. 😶
Going after what you want? Sure.. Everyone does it all the time.
It's not about right or wrong.
Yes.. I've done it..


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/22/2019 10:50 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Why the f.. k is he checking the doors and windows as soon as he walks in? Wtf is his problem?
    He sounds paranoid. I would use him (if that's what you want to do), and say goodbye to him.
    He sounds messed up.. Why is he getting angry?
    Why is he drinking so much? So many q's about this guy. Just saying, but he creeps me out.
    Sounds like he's a head case.. 😶
    Going after what you want? Sure.. Everyone does it all the time.
    It's not about right or wrong.
    Yes.. I've done it..
This story wasn’t about me personally but you are right there’s lots of questions left unanswered.


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
1/23/2019 12:15 am

If they both enjoyed themselves that's fine, not like there was any thing else suggested no commitment, just two people wanting to have sex, not something I think happens all that often.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/23/2019 4:43 am

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    If they both enjoyed themselves that's fine, not like there was any thing else suggested no commitment, just two people wanting to have sex, not something I think happens all that often.
Agree. Mutual consent and awareness are key.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/23/2019 4:45 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    No... depending on the gender, man or woman, confidence and/or attractiveness is indeed separate.

    As I said before, confidence is necessary for men, but not necessary for attractive women.

    Generally "Attractiveness" , to each gender, is separate , too...

    For men to be "Attractive" [meaning to do well attracting women], his physical looks work , but his financial attractiveness would work in his favor so much more . Meaning he doesn't need to be physically attractive, just financially attractive. But if he lacks confidence, he then lacks the ability to choose the woman he wants. Without confidence he falls victim to the confident woman, and she is usually not always physically attractive.

    While for women to be "Attractive" [meaning to attract more men to mate with her] , she depends on her physical looks, and that's all. She can be financially broke, very shy.... but if she is physically attractive, she does better with attracting men.

    As I said, if she is confident, she doesn't need to wait for a man to come along and give her what she wants, or needs. She just goes after it on her own. But, if she is not physically attractive, she may not be able to attract the actual type of man she has her mind set on.
Thanks for explaining your perspective.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
1/23/2019 7:45 am

Sometimes Lust must be satiated


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/23/2019 8:07 am

    Quoting HermanG67:
    Sometimes Lust must be satiated
Yes, sometimes lust dictates all actions.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/23/2019 11:16 am

What a great story my friend and it's always the best feeling when you get what you want..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/23/2019 11:20 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    What a great story my friend and it's always the best feeling when you get what you want..
Thank you 🙏
The key is also being aware of any risks or costs if you try.


tallinnm 36M
11 posts
1/24/2019 9:55 pm

Nice


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
1/24/2019 10:07 pm

Glad you enjoyed it.
Thanks for stopping by.


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