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1/1/2020 9:18 pm |
Totally agree
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1/1/2020 9:20 pm |
Talking is key in any type of relationship
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I'm guessing, deep in the throws of Christmas, somebody is horny and wants to make it all better... Just a guess..
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men can be such idiots. no one needs shitty friends. and that is just utterly ridiculous. he's on his third wife?? i wonder why? i'd reply to him with gee, it would be nice if you told me what i did.
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1/1/2020 10:23 pm |
that fucked up he waited that long to say he forgave you but did not tell you what you did.
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Communication is the key in everything and they....that male species....certainly communicate differently ( some anyway ). My husband has a friend from college 40 plus yrs ago, who suddenly stopped responding to his calls or inquiries through other friends. There obviuolsy was a breakdown somewhere....as they had been super close. I , even emailed the guy...just asking ' whats up?' to no response. My husband passed 3 yrs ago next week and to his dying day, he was still hurt and not understanding of the loss of that friendship. I received a condolence call from the wife....only. Very sad... I wonder if your friend will ever reach out and say, what the issue was. As long as someone is alive , there is always hope.~~
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1/1/2020 10:31 pm |
That's crazy and unnecessary. Nothing worse than wondering why someone is behaving in a certain way
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Well... you already know, the answer to THAT question. 🤔 👍 😊 Some people... just can't express themselves or their emotions nor are they able to resolve conflicts. They're clueless on what to do. 'Life skill' immaturity and an inability to communicate probably lead to similar issues with many others in his life. It's not you. It's the way he handles things - poorly. He holds mindless grudges... or... What didja do to tick him off? Forget to flush? 🤔 😮😎 It's all good... If he sent you a card it means it's all forgotten, right? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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1/1/2020 11:46 pm |
It's immature to not even state that he was 1) Angry, and 2) Offer no explanation why. It's funny that you were renting space in his head for free - and you didn't even know there was an issue. Are you going to follow up and ask what he was mad about?
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some work colleagues of mine dropped me when i became single, they were married and we all used to have get togethers, i once said that I lost a few friends when my 1st marriage ended. They said that wouldn't happen if it were to happen again (which it did) and low n behold i found myself Friendless ..... no calls, no invites nothing. They never told me why, but i came to my own conclusions.
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1/2/2020 2:14 am |
just one question... if a friend can not tell another friend how they offend them... what kind of friend were they there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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today people forget what the word " Friend" means
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1/2/2020 7:25 am |
I think the fellow might be passive aggressive. He doesn't want to confront you about whatever he perceives as the transgression , so he'll give you the cold shoulder to let you know he's upset but it's up to you to figure out why he's upset.
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I do to. If you’re talking to someone and you’re going to stop for whatever reason at least let them know reach me in my blog titled private mail
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i would to also waiting 15 months and still don't why he should read your blog guess he likes to keep it to himself
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I might be going through the same thing now. I haven't any idea why they aren't responding.
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Fully agree !! some people just don't know how to express themselves. whether or not something was a sore point, or anything else for that matter.
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Sixty years is a long time to be friends with someone then suddenly stop speaking to them with no explanation. The manner in which he "informed" you he was angry is very childish. Perhaps he forgot all his "big boy" words and how to use them.
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1/2/2020 6:40 pm |
"Or even, not go into details but say I'm a bit upset about... and then come back later when the anger has passed." nono if they did that you could talk it out and the misunderstanding would pass. one thing i have noticed as we age we depend less on logic, and more on stubbornness. there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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